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I would think that would make her uniquely qualified to teach it.

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Sex ed is ideally about healthy relationships and safe sex. A prostitute is probably the exact opposite of what you want for that.

Sex-as-industry is a deeply fucked up field that is almost guaranteed to build resentment and unhealthy associations with sex.

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I dated an ex-escort for a while and the relationship was just fine. I think you’re talking without any real experience.

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A friend was an escort for a while and she’s one of the most loving and caring people I know. I would trust her with everything, especially relationship advice.

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It can be fine. That doesn’t make them the “most qualified to teach sex ed”

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Wouldn’t this kind of be like drug addicts telling children why drugs are bad?

Very few ways to better learn why something is right than far reaching consequences for doing it wrong.

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I don’t think we should teach that sex is wrong or bad, but yeah, she probably is experienced in what can go wrong and can talk from more experience than most of us.

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More like a drug dealer telling children why drugs are bad. (The role analogous to the drug addict would be the prostitute’s client.)

And, frankly, that’s not a bad idea either.

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10 points

To be fair, throughout history most marriage have been completely transactional.

The idea that a marriage should be based on romantic love is a new concept that would have been seen as unhealthy throughout most of human history

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5 points

There are love stories and sonats that are thousands of years old.

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A woman who has sex for work would be very concerned about doing so safely. She is likely going to know about STDs and pregnancies as well as how to prevent them and how to deal with them if/when they come up.

She has experience in setting expectations, limits, and breaking off sex when she needs to.

She is going to have more experience with the human body, what’s “normal” physically, what warning signs are for various STDs.

She’ll likely be the least judgemental person for someone to talk to when it comes to sex and sexual relationships.

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16 points

Yeah, you’re talking out of your ass.

You need to actually research this topic instead of believing conservative talking points about the sex work industry.

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No you’re right. They don’t have extremely high rates of being sexually assau…

45 to 75 percent.

And this isn’t exactly a conservative source. Turns out the people playing for sex aren’t always the greatest people.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://swopusa.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/FACT-SHEET-Sexual-Assault-Prevalence-Among-Sex-Workers-USA.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwipyp-E1-yCAxWDlGoFHdfiDGIQFnoECBQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw06F00deZ5se8DU56cXaMyP

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Sex-as-industry is a deeply fucked up field that is almost guaranteed to build resentment and unhealthy associations with sex.

It’s literally not. In fact, some people who do sex work develop an almost therapeutic relationship with their clients, since the intimate environment promotes emotional sharing.

It’s literally one of the oldest professions of human society, and the stigma against it is entirely rooted in puritanical religious attitudes, which have been proven to be antithetical to healthy relationships, if not actively promoting abuse.

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Victim blaming. Wow.

They are experts in the industry and it’s not a justification. If it was your justification I’ll just let your next doctor know that you don’t want a lecture by an expert in the field but someone else entirely. I’ll just grab today’s horoscope. Holdup.

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68 points

Yes, many academic disciplines view fieldwork as essential. Those who abstain can even be labeled as armchair theorists.

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“No officer, you don’t understand! I offered her a large grant for her to do research. Not research for me, it’s for the high schoolers! How else are they supposed to learn proper technique? Jail? For what? Providing a proper education?!”

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