Any categories, themes, positions, whatever that is too hard to find?

63 points

The actors genuinely enjoying themselves.

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I agree! And to add to it, there needs to be more slow porn, where the actors really take their time and get each other passionately warmed up. I’m the person who likes the vanilla and wholesome tags in my hentai. Give me a happily married couple having that slow, loving, lazy morning sex.

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I suppose we need to narrow the search down to specific tags or producers in this case. Probably towards couples who shoot themselves, away from bigger porn companies (with actors/actresses) 🤔

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2 points

one of the many reasons why I always hated “professional” porn. it just never feels natural

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41 points

Better plots. It doesn’t always have to be long and drawn out but the step-sibling thing is a turn off for me so I would like alternatives. Gonzo is fine too.

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I’m not sure but I can tell you what I would like to see less of, stepsister fucking. What the hell is going on?

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More mature hot women, I DON’T mean mature as in grannies. I mean women-ly women instead of the trend seemingly of “teenage looking” girls who just seem washed up. More women-ly sensual women instead of bratty looking girls who just turned 18 or something. Bombshell of a women instead of some girl who failed at tiktok fame or whatever.

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Holy misogyny disguised as white knighting, Batman. You can appreciate an age group of women without tearing down another one. They’re all women trying to work; just because you don’t like that style of porn doesn’t mean you have to disparage the women themselves doing the work. I thought we were sex positive here.

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Misogyny? I was not making an attack on women, but merely a dislike of a portrayal of a certain type. If you must, you could perhaps say my tone has a hint of “ageism” (even that’s a stretch), but in what way misogynistic? It is fine if they want to make a living in porn, I am not against making a living in porn. I was making a comment as to preferring a different portrayal or style in porn. I don’t like a certain style and that’s what I am saying unapologetically. I am sure there is a demand for this style even though I don’t like it and women can continue to make their living tailoring to the demand. Not sure how there is any misogyny or even more confusingly “white knighting”.

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“I don’t hate all women, just certain types of women!” That’s still misogyny, my dude. I included the white knighting descriptor because you were dressing it up as advocating for your select desired group of women.

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Female on male gangbangs with the proper social dynamic. There are lots of these where for some reason all the women want to do is focus on male pleasure. That’s not a gangbang! It’s just a poorly balanced orgy. The subject should be used like a piece of meat. That’s what I like to see.

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Yes, I definitely agree we need more of this. Not just limited to gangbangs though. I want to see more balance in what gender takes charge in the scene. And watching women lose their self-control and getting their fix by any means necessary is great fun (even if it’s mostly acting). I’d imagine this works out even better for gangbang scenarios where a group of women just decides that the guy is there just as a sophisticated sextoy.

While vanilla pornography has these balance issues, they’re also prevalent in BDSM content. While there is some absolutely amazing maledom content out there, I haven’t seen any femdom that’s up to the same standards. Lots of sumbissive male scenes, sure. But hardly any where the woman actually seems in control by way of physical bondage. It seems to me that in most attempts in that direction the guy just complies with having some rope inconvenience while being jerked off. I just can’t find any scenes where the guy is properly restrained to an object and believably at the mercy of their counterpart.

And it’s not just straight content either, gay scenes have the exact same problem. Which makes it all the more strange to me that we can’t have men objectified, humiliated, used and discarded quite the same way we do with women. Surely there’s a demand for it?

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I would like to see that too

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