Obviously depends on the person, but I would love that question. Straight to the point, trying to understand where I’m at. I can and will appreciate that.
Maybe that’s the neurospicy part of me. I can absolutely see why someone wouldn’t like that.
Exactly: I’m more than happy to either give you emotional support or brainstorm a solution.
Just tell me which one, because the two things don’t overlap at all.
TBF giving appliances an angry slap is often both an emotional and technical solution.
Yeah same. It is weird because I’m never quite sure what mode my wife is in. And she never knows what mode I’m in.
Usually I’m the one in feelings mode because I usually solve the problem myself so if the problem is still there I tried and failed and am now emotional.
I will have to try this.
Yea this is good partner behavior as I’ve been taught. Jumping straight to problem solving can be dismissive. It’s talking past where your partner is at rather than meeting them where they are
Actually thinking about this for a second I’m an idiot. What’s the solution stage for “my burrito exploded?” Pick it up ho?
Having worked in tech support, I can say that listening skills are crucial. Sure, being tech savvy is important too, but first you need to listen and maybe even calm the other person down a bit before you can start working on the actual problem. I wonder if medical doctors are like that as well…
Why is everyone discussing this as if humour is nonexistent?
I don’t know what it is but Lemmy sometimes feel extra special in that sort of way
Brah if I sent this to my wife she’d tell me not to be a smart ass
I am bad with feelings in a medical way so when someone comes to me to complain I always try finding a solution.
This video ruined my day and will probably upset me every time I remember it for the rest of my life.
I hope you’re happy.
Truly, I hope you have a nice day, sharing is caring.