I recall hearing about Alovoa a year ago and while it sounds nice with no ads or paid features, being open source, and private data being encrypted I have to imagine the userbase is incredibly small relative to other services. Google Play lists it at over a thousand downloads but it’s also available through F-Droid so that may not mean much. I have to imagine the userbase is mostly men which might prevent some users from joining or sticking around.


Either way (TL:DR) I’d be curious to see what your experiences are with open source dating apps or even apps designed around making friends.

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I know I’m open for your source 😘

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I’d settle for an open source friend app but I doubt it would be better than bumble for friends.

you get the same issue anywhere, no one is serious about meeting up in person.

I have enough online friends.

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The problem is most of us techy people that care about open source are introverts …

Try meeting some normies via websites like meetup or local hobby communities.

I’ve had good luck meeting fellow computerphiles because we’re in the same circle of friends and we even have our own events now IRL (LAN parties, retro arcade nights, programmer trivia nights etc)

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I miss hanging out at bookstores, with comfortable seating areas and coffee shops and maybe a quiet musician on weekends… met some really smart and educated people that way.

I recently wandered into an old Borders like that where I used to spend a lot of time years ago, which is now a Books-a-Million. It was like being in a K-Mart. Dirty, dimly-lit, product stacked randomly everywhere (including just left on stocking carts abandoned in the aisles), hot because they had the A/C set to barely run at all (everyone inside was sweating), all seating gone, the kitchen area just ripped out and bare plumbing left exposed, with hardly any staff or customers in there at all. The book selection was gutted down to be mostly romance, horror, manga and self-help. I guess that’s what the few people still coming in buy.

It was pretty depressing.

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Have you thought of frendica? I think it’s kinda what you’re looking for but it doesn’t seem too popular. Have you used bumble for friends? I thought bumble was for dating, I’m not sure how that would work for friends.

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Friendica didn’t use activitypub until it was too late which might explain the lack of popularity.

Bumble for friends is a separate service from bumble.

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I checked it out a few years ago, there were like 4 people within 10,000km radius and they were all dudes

(To be fair it’s probably much better now, but keep your expectations low)

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You have a better chance of meeting people inperson than an open source dating app

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I used one called The Real World™. It’s free to use but, like most open source apps, the UI is confusing and configuration is complicated.

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Real world is open source now?? Where?!

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Compiling it from source is pretty much impossible, but the frame rate is insane.

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Oh, I get it

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It’s ok we can just refactor it to using an interpreted language XD

So why those scientists waste time and money? let them just read the source code -_-

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The graphics are normally great, but they glitch out for some users, often to the point of being completely unusable.

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Free to use? I use a version that forces me to have subscriptions for the most basic things :/

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Yeah, that one’s expensive. Microtransactions and such. Very sneaky!

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Ok boomer

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I tried to use this app, but it seems to have a lot of users who are not interested in dating at all. There is an experimental feature called “engagement rings” that’s supposed to show an indicator of who is interested, but it seems to be very unreliable.

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