AnAnxiousCorgi
I’m a big fan of the saying that “time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time” for that exact reason. If you want to do nothing then do nothing, that’s perfectly okay!
What is sad, though, is that I feel like this is saying you get so tired and burnt out from working just to survive that even when you get time off you don’t get to enjoy it or do things you want because you’re just so burnt out from working.
When I was a kid my mom and I would occasionally take little overnight trips to random towns we’d never been. Just open a map find a place a few hours away and go there and see what’s up. Mind you, this is before the days of the internet and GPS, and when I say a kid I’m like 8 or 9 I think?
Anyways mom opens up the map, says this little town right on the coast looks neat let’s go there, and off we went. The town was neat! Little sea-side fishing village. I don’t remember it super well, but I remember walking on the pier and my mom letting me spend some allowance money on Pogs and a metal slammer. I do remember that slammer, Ricky from Kindergarten, and I FUCKING KNOW YOU TOOK IT.
Anyways we conclude our tour of the pier and start looking for hotels and not a single room is available. There’s several hotels in the town, but they’re all booked up, turns out the little fishing village is busy like one week a year for some annual get together and this is that week. People were kind, calls were made, and a room was found at a local motel on the edge of town.
The carpet was sticky. The carpet was sticky. The tub was covered in some kind of dirt and/or stain that was gross enough for my mom to tell me to just skip showering. We slept, clothed, on top of the blankets and laid down towels to walk on the floor. My mom says she thinks it was an “hourly” motel, when she thinks back on it.
After that any time we took an “adventure” like that she made sure to find a room when we first go to the place rather than the end of the day lol.
Well I’m pretty anxious
I don’t trust those corn field carnival rides either, those things terrify me even more than the submarine, so speak for yourself lol.
Not entirely. There’s a couple larger subreddits I enjoy and tbh it’s still my go-to for doomscrolling.
However my desire to interact with reddit couldn’t be any less. Zero desire to post or comment anything due to the sheer hostility of the site to it’s users.
I think if lemmy continues to grow in userbase it could completely replace reddit, but not at this immediate moment.
Sans Undertale is my favorite character from Nintendo’s Smashing Brothers!
Personally, no. Facebook/Meta has instilled absolutely zero goodwill in me as a platform and as a product it brings nothing new to the table to entice me in. Their userbase size is their only potential benefit, and tbh that has never been a draw for myself.
And that’s all assuming they actually respected my privacy, which I don’t believe for a moment they would ever do.
I see a couple ways you could do this. For what it’s worth, I think Lemmy may be close enough to what you want out of the box. I run my own private instance similar to how you’re laying out, although I don’t “disable” registration, I do require account approval by an admin. I’m sure at some point I’ll start getting spammed with registrations, but thus far it hasn’t been an issue. Similarly, federation can be disabled as a setting in the admin section of Lemmy.
What you’re laying out on the technical side is also absolutely possible. Lemmy has a JS client you can pull in as a dependency to manage the calls from Javascript, but it also describes the HTTP endpoint for said call, so you could make your own calls using a separate back end service (ie: after your form submits it makes the call over to your Lemmy instance to register the user).
Here’s the register call specifically, which registers a new user on your instance: https://join-lemmy.org/api/classes/LemmyHttp.html#register
However, note that they would still not be “approved” (if your instance required approval to join), but you could just make another API call to complete that process: https://join-lemmy.org/api/classes/LemmyHttp.html#approveRegistrationApplication
As another option, I haven’t dove into the actual code, but to the best of my knowledge Lemmy is ultimately just interacting with a Postgres database, my guess is you could likely also connect to this database and directly insert the appropriate rows to create your new user accounts. Definitely use some caution with this approach though, ensure you’re using separate database users with appropriate permissions for each application. Additionally, know that if you write code to handle custom user registrations by writing straight to the DB, you’ll have to be mindful of updates to Lemmy that change the DB schema for that table will (most likely) break your registration script/code.
Lastly, if you really wanted to, you could just fork Lemmy itself! The UI and API are completely separate services, there’s nothing stopping you from forking the UI part of the project and applying your own custom changes to the registration flow for your own instance!
I set up my own instance to mess around with (and what I’m posting from now). The other instances interact with mine just fine and by default. It is certainly possible they could explicitly blacklist your instance, but short of an admin of another instance personally taking umbrage with you I can’t see that happening.
For myself I have set my instance to be private (for me and some friends) and the other instances I “federate” with are done on a whitelist, although you can definitely open up to everything and instead deny specific instances with a blacklist.