Thanks for your help, though I disagree

K

Wtf do you mean behaviour? Do you know how many pieces of shit I know of that are in relationships?

Same with friends. Tons of assholes have friends. Does that make them dating material?

I feel like you’re just describing a toxic relationship not necessarily a pathological dark triad one.

most humans don’t work transactionally

Maybe not consciously but they most certainly do… they look for attractiveness, social status, personality etc etc etc

Most people wouldn’t date someone who is hideous, jobless and has no friends for example. Most people chose someone who will contribute to their life somehow ú

Idk like not fighting 24/7 is an example. Pretending to be happy with each other when seen outside together.

Another example. Staying together. How do 2 toxic people tolerate each other I don’t get it? I guess the pros outweigh the cons in some way? Like maybe one of them is rich and like the other offers great sex or something? Man I don’t know

Okay but let’s say I have to choose one window, which should it be?

The issue is that the cleaning people don’t fucking open windows when they clean and that shit enters my apartment and makes me itch.

They refuse to change the garbage they use, refuse to fucking do anything.

Now I have to be the bad guy opening a window, so that everyone complains that they’re fucking freezing and that I’m a menace.

Get a life

I mean there are also plenty of extremely stupid people. Plus their children wouldn’t know any better. In this case it’s the wife that’s stupid, but it’s possible they just lied to avoid jail time. Maybe they had their suspicions something is wrong with their husbands.

I don’t think so. From what I’ve seen they mostly didn’t have anyone close, and just fooled their neighbours (which is easy I would think)

Surely they can’t act 24/7?