It’s not even meant to be a jab; if the pre-set challenge is enough, why would you seek a greater one?
Well cuz playing with others isn’t why i play games! I get enough of pitting myself against other humans in my daily life n stuff. When i play games it’s me time, and for me pvp is an intrusion on that. I get why people like that intensity and challenge, but adding other peeps whose specific goal is the opposite of mine just doesn’t do it for me, doesn’t click the “play more” button like it does for some folk.