I figured since their admin has asked them to stop participating over here it may be worthwhile to get a new discussion going that is primarily blahaj. I’m almost certain they’ll still be upvoting so keep that in mind as that may skew things. Worthwhile to check in from instances that have already defederated them. The previous thread definitely left a bad taste in my mouth but what do y’all think?
Old thread can be found here
EDIT: With regards to the post on new federation guidelines here: https://hexbear.net/post/352119
The current top comment is:
Every instance that has talked shit and got dogpiled should be thanking us for breathing some life into their dead and boring ass websites.
TGCJ is fine, but TGCJ culture stays in TGCJ spaces because outside of TGCJ, it’s just transphobia. I get that that place is great for people, and I respect its right to exist and have no problem with the people in it, but I don’t want to be confronted with TGCJ memes every time I log into my safe space.
That’s kinda how I feel about Hexbear’s behavior so far. My understanding is that Hexbear has a very supportive culture, and that their “dunking” happens in the context of being supportive of their own? But that’s not what we see out here. Out here it just seems like they’re toxic and hostile, and even as someone who ostensibly should feel left unity with them I just feel alienated.
Maybe it’s my fault for not being familiar enough with their meme culture. But at the same time, they should be making more of an effort to be aware of what space they’re in and the fact that they’re in community now, and not everywhere has the same norms.
That said, I still am glad we’re not defederating. The admin team over there seems to be making headway, and I think we should let them try to improve before we cut them off preemptively. My hope is that the culture shock will pass with time.
