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Most people aren't attracted to an entire gender so why do we frame attraction in those terms so much?

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zqps@sh.itjust.works
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That doesn’t resolve the question though. What does it mean to be “fundamentally attracted to women” if you’re not actually attracted to most women?

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I’m attracted to femininity, first and foremost. Femininity is a requirement, and it’s not flexible. But then there are other more flexible preferences about specific appearance or personality details I might like in a woman.

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