This is not my personal opinion, I know Gen Z men who voted for Harris. But the voter demographics really speak for themselves, and maybe now people will look at the radicalization of young men as a serious (but solvable) issue.

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Issues affecting young women:

  1. Rapes aren’t prosecuted
  2. Government forced births
  3. Bleeding out in a parking lot
  4. Widespread misogyny

Issues affecting young men:

  1. Girls won’t put out
  2. There aren’t enough pickup trucks
  3. Joe Rogan is being victimized by jews
  4. Germ theory and masks or something

How exactly can a political party address what is for men essentially a collection of toxic culture issues?

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Don’t forget them just being mad at the concept of child support

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Oh yeah, good point.

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I think many men, whether they realize it or not, feel specifically persecuted by trans rights. They might say that allowing trans women in women’s sports is cheating and that it would allow the trans women to be successful in the sport over less merit than they as cis males would have to. The deconstruction of the gender/sex binary also threatens cis males’ historic position as self-assigned protectors, leaders, and winners of the “weaker sex”. There is also the phobia among men of discovering that the woman whom they want to romance is trans, which really comes down to masculine fragility and conformity that leads to homophobia (in the sense of XY + XY, not gender) and transphobia. As a cis male, these men need to get over themselves.

Many men also believe that gun control is a threat to them. They need these guns in case a fascist power ever seizes the government and they need to fight back, so they are actively voting for the fascist powers to seize the government so that they can keep their guns.

There are also men who hold prejudice against any religion except Christianity so leftwing inclusivity efforts and anti-prejudice efforts come across as welcoming these perceived threats. These men aren’t simply just the redneck Bible thumpers or even devout or practicing Christians, but they just see the most common belief system around them as the default.

It’s not that these issues are a threat to men, but that they perceive them as threats.

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Issues affecting young men:

  1. Rape reports are ignored and not taken seriously
  2. Not trained in the tools to deal with mental health and emotions
  3. High expectation to make money but low job prospects
  4. Jerks trivializing the fact that men have real concerns because OtHeRs HaVe It WoRsE.

It should be empathy for all. Asshat.

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Empathy isn’t a zero sum game. It is, in fact, possible to care about women’s issues and men’s issues at the same time. A woman getting the support they need doesn’t take anything away from a man, nor does a man getting the support they need take anything away from a woman.

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I don’t know the solution, but I do know that self-hatred isn’t it.

People face a myriad of assaults on their mental health every day. Virtue signaling and choosing to leave any subgroup behind just because you think someone else has it worse won’t lead to the outcome you hope it will.

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I agree, but you forgot the biggest one

No more third places

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Your list is the issues that men are actually facing, but what OP posted is what the clout chasing “alpha influencers” tout as “men’s actual problems”.

For everyone’s sake, we need to start reclaiming men’s spaces from these Andrew Taint-wannabe’s, and towards people like you. They don’t care about anything but their bank accounts.

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Influencers are the tail that thinks they’re wagging the dog. When they aren’t shilling garbage products and cryptoscams they’re spending all their time trying to find the next trend to chase. Besides the shilling, at their worst they’re merely a sounding board for ideas and issues that are already out there (and have been for a long time).

The biggest mistake the Democrat campaign made was to ignore the plight of working class, non-college educated people. To a group that’s been reeling from inflation and the major setback of COVID lockdowns, the Democrats promised more of the same. That’s not good enough! What good is student loan forgiveness to people who never went to college?

That’s been the problem for the Democrats for decades now. A party that used to call labour unions its base now focuses pretty much exclusively on college-educated middle class and up.

I just had a look at the exit polls. Of the people who said the economy was the most important use, 79% voted for Trump. Of those who think the US’s economy is doing not so good/poor (67% of voters), 69% voted for Trump.

I know lots of people here will sneer at that and Trump seems pretty unlikely to right the ship but he actually promised change whereas the Democrats did not. Promising to keep things the same when 2/3 of voters believe the economy is poor is not going to get the job done.

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This is the exact kind of attitude they meant

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Talk about diving people, what a prime example. What would you say if I name fashion as one of the primary female problems? Or having good pictures on Instagram?

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I don’t disagree with your issues facing women. But your issues young men face is very disingenuous

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Its disingenuous to the actual issues facing young men, but right on point for how people seem to see mens issues. It is in fact a perfect example of why men might just feel put upon by the left.

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Nowhere in this thread has anyone discussed issues that exclusively affect men. There are very few such issues and all of them are trivial.

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Is there a visual representation of 3. being nailed to a cross for dramatization purposes?

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It’s not so much a crucifix but a lowercase letter T for his low-testosterone he’s so obsessed with

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How exactly can a political party address what is for men essentially a collection of toxic culture issues?

I don’t necessarily know, and neither does the Democratic party, which is at least part of the reason why Trump just got reelected.

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Imagine if you reversed the roles there and said something like issues facing women: handbag not sparkly enough or some shit

There are real issues for both men and women. The fact people think otherwise is part is the root of the problem

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But I would be lying.

Look, name an issue that exclusively affects men, and I’ll amend my list. So far, no one has come up with anything.

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“Rapes aren’t prosecuted” doesn’t exclusively effect women by any means. Also, men can get pregnant. Trans men are men.

I understand the point you’re making and I generally agree, but to suggest there are not issues that affect young men much more than young women that seriously need fixing is silly.

The insane drug war affects men far, far more than women.

And you’ll also notice that, aside from Breyonna Taylor who cops didn’t even know was there, virtually every major case involving police extrajudicial murder was of a black man.

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Mental health issues being ignored by their peers and society as a whole is a pretty big one

You could claim women have mental health problems too and they do but they have spaces to talk about that

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