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How were you able to get over the fear of approaching your crush? And how did it go?

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I need advice because I’m scared lol.

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flashgnash@lemm.ee
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Which works great until the other person responds with 2-5 words max every time you ask a question (dating apps)

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deranger@sh.itjust.works
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That’s a good thing, imagine if you ended up with that person.

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flashgnash@lemm.ee
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I do and have been but there’s only so many times I can try

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shittydwarf@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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Yeah trying to have a conversation on a dating app is like pissing into the wind

Edit: interesting username, is that a reference to the old flash player gnash?

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flashgnash@lemm.ee
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No it’s something I came up with when I was 10 and it stuck. Not really a reference to anything

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tetris11@lemmy.ml
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k
lmao
wot u think
ngl dat flips
brb ohio

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flashgnash@lemm.ee
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Honestly at least that would convey a bit of personality lol

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Lime Buzz@beehaw.org
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A good solution here is to ask open ended questions instead of ones with a yes or no etc answer and to talk about their interests.

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flashgnash@lemm.ee
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So far it seems as though they’re interested in nothing

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Lime Buzz@beehaw.org
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There’s nothing in their profiles about their interests?

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jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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Those people aren’t a good match for you (or maybe anyone).

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