Thanks for that, I think asking what their needs are is probably a good segue. I don’t think anyone has ever said that I’m being self centered directly, but I have lost friendships and people refused to tell me what I did wrong soooo who knows what people really feel. Just sucks too, to have to be the person to ask what the other needs when that’s not afforded to you such is the life of an AuDHDer tho