Well, you don’t have to be having sex with a guy to see his cock. Don’t even need that to see his hard cock.

You just have to enjoy or be willing to be present when men are going to be present, naked, and possibly aroused.

Which is a long way of saying that I rarely have had sex with men, I don’t enjoy it. But I’ve seen a lot of cocks, aroused or otherwise.

I was a nurse for a long time, and I enjoy group sex and orgies, as well as group bdsm.

Yes, some of them can be quite surprising. All kinds of sizes, angles, and colors. They can bend into very unusual arcs as well.

There was a gentleman at a party that was fairly long, fairly narrow, but it bent three times, almost into an § shape, like a double S. He called it his literal trouser snake.

There’s all kinds of colors that can surprise you until you learn that they can happen. Very bright blues and purples for sure, but also greens and oranges. It isn’t going to be an all-over coloration most of the time; the majority is going to be shades of brown to pale colors. But I have seen a few cocks that were a dusky purplish blue on the shaft, building to blues and purples on the head. It’s all about the combination of melanin and blood under the surface to make the light refract and reflect in interesting ways.

They can be very lumpy sometimes as well. Football (american type) shaped is not super rare, and having bulges is common enough that it ceases to be startling after a while.