Hot girl problems. It’s a real thing and leads to a tremendous amount of loneliness for them. If you are very clear and the guys aren’t all invested already, then it’s a great way to start a legit friendship. Problem is that with a lot of cute girls, they have had so many bad experiences with guys putting them in the girlfriend zone that they just end up jaded.

It’s our responsibility as individuals never to get jaded, and also to be honest with ourselves about what kind of energy are we putting out there. Is the OP crossing boundaries with these guys, suggesting they may become more by accepting their overly nice gestures, actions, texts and gifts? If not, then it’s the guys fault.

She could always make some girl friends but we all know how difficult THAT is. Hot women need some accountabilityv though if they’re ever going to get out of this rut