I have a “rule”

I will gladly enjoy what someone shared in scale with the apparent intent of the material.

So, a pretty woman sharing a clothed picture (even if the clothing is very sexy), isn’t something I’m going to enjoy on a sexual level. I might think for a bit that it would be nice if she shared more than that, but that’s where it ends.

If a woman shares a picture of her in clothing, but does so while saying something like “guess what I look like under this”, that’s a direct invitation to fantasize.

This means that the regular selfie on your profile isn’t something that would normally lead me to sexual thoughts. And it didn’t this time because the way you asked the question was interesting enough that I wanted to think about that rather than enjoy the implied permission to enjoy it sexually via fantasy.

I’ve never been the kind to sexualize pictures of women that weren’t already sexual. I have no idea why, but even bikinis and lingerie pics never seemed sexual to me.

Don’t get me wrong, I very much enjoy such pictures! But it’s more the way I enjoy a painting, or someone dancing. It’s beautiful, but not sexual for me.

Tbh, I don’t even assume outright nudes are sexual any more. I used to, but when all those celebrities’ pictures got leaked years ago, it made me rethink that. Now, if I know the person didn’t share the images, I avoid them. If the picture looks like they may not have intended to share it with everyone, it’s the same thing.

Not sure if you wanted that kind of response, but that’s my take on things. You’re very pretty though, and if you ever decide to share more of your body with the world, I’m quite sure they will make fpr wonderful fantasies.