I am more realistic than idealistic. I prefer to avoid the pain than make it more tolerable.
Well a tough fact about the real world is that not all pain is avoidable.
if you put in a balance the suffering vs the joy, you will realize some things.
You don’t have empathy for real life infants (and half the time you don’t even think infants are real). You mostly talk about how much you hate people. I don’t believe you have any helpful realizations to share with the world