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When was the last time you worked and didn’t get paid for it? Why do you feel like you’re justified to come to a person’s place of work and make them be at your beck and call, but you don’t think that these servants deserve their own food or livelihood?

There’s nothing intelligent or admirable about this behavior. Quite the contrary, it’s simply a disgusting lack of respect for other human beings.

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So you agree that they should be paid a living wage. I believe the employer should pay them enough, not customer to pay them on top of the already paying for the food.

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Yes, I agree with you. They should be able to make a living wage. Unfortunately, when you refuse to tip you don’t hurt the owner. Instead, you hurt the employee.

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You do, but if no one would tip owners would compensate the employees because they must make at least minimum wage.

The fact of the matter is that owners get to pay his employees less by having customers pay for it instead. You can call it tips, but what is really is - it’s the money the employer should have gave them.

And then we can stop the entire ritual of shame and guilt where you tip just to not be judged by everyone around you for being “cheap”, even though you paid for the costs of the food you ordered.

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Boycot the restaurant

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Or maybe if everybody stopped tipping and workers went on strike, businesses might actually be forced to pay a living wage instead of telling their employees to beg to get enough money to put food on the table?

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Yes and if everyone agreed to just stop fighting we’d have world peace but we’re talking about actually achievable goals.

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Yeah. Punish the people who are living hand to mouth every single day by making them too poor to refuse any work they can get. That oughta teach them not to accept their slave labor. /S

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Hand to mouth? lol you haven’t met my ex who was a waitress at a mid level sit down restaurant.

That bitch was competing nicely with me on income back then when I was a junior software developer.

Not everyone working in food service is one day away from a homeless shelter.

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I never implied it was “admirable”. I shouldn’t have to supplement a workers shitty pay, so I don’t. What makes a waiter/waitress more entitled to a tip over someone who stocks shelves at a grocery store or works in the fast food industry? Also I’m not American, shocking I know. If an employer isn’t going to pay their staff a proper wage in your country then that’s between the employer and employee

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Ok, so stay out of American restaurants. We don’t want you in them.

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Typical American, grouping an entire nation into a personal opinion. Well done.

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It depends on where they’re from though. Outside of America we don’t have such a reliance on tipping

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That is true. I’m really only talking about America in this context.

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