Whataboutism. A vote is a gesture of support. A vote for something is supporting that thing.
You support murdering children.
We should be voting independent. Voting for R or D would lead to the same outcome. I hate the blind support for Israel. They’ve done some truly shitty things. Our relationship feels like trying to look out for the kid who gets bullied in school, but the whole time he’s out there spitting on people. We should at least be holding them accountable if we’re going to send them our resources.
If voting means you agree with one of the parties, not voting means you agree with both and are ok with either ruling.