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Chemistry and attraction.

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How is that a red flag? Did you misread the OP’s question?

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Loads of people have habitual attraction to unhealthy relationship patterns.

Being drawn to the same kind of asshole over and over can feel like a chemical green flag, wisdom and experience show it’s a red flag and things always end the same unhappy way

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Fair enough, but it’s not like you should pursue people you don’t find attractive or have any chemistry with. That’s more of a self-red-flag that you need to work on yourself before get out there.

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When lust was just the appetizer before love, not just empty calories as usual.

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