Iโve never had a Facebook account or any other social media. I know they keep shadow profiles, but Iโve never given permission. I never had any interest and frankly still donโt.
The problem Iโm having is that I donโt exist online when people try to look me up. When someone tries to check me out, thereโs nothing there and apparently thatโs considered abnormal these days. I think itโs starting to affect my life negatively for various reasons Iโd rather not get into.
Iโd just like some advice about where to start if you wanted to dip your toes in and check it out. LinkedIn, maybe?
Seriously I kind of miss the โInternet playgroundโ era of 10 years ago. It felt like you could easily find not just one but multiple close knit groups for ANYTHING you might enjoy. It was easy to engage with people without huge effort.
Nowadays itโs monolithic corporate groups. Soulless without the close interactions. Content is at an all time high yet simultaneously true interactions are dead. Forget about trying to find multiple groups, they all have been cannibalised into a singular Uber corpo group if it exists at all.
i miss the mid 90s internet.
Where the internet was a curiousity, not yet exploited by companies and advertising, where to find new websites you had to click next on ring networks or find a website directory cause search engines werent even a thing yet, but every website you found was someones passion project and rife with the interesting and bizarre
For me itโs the early 2010 internet. Where technological advances made navigating it easy and you could with no effort find several groups chatting about topics you liked. Information was easily available yet it felt extremely personal too.
That was before everything became ultra monolithic and corporate. Youโll be lucky if you find even just one active forum for something you like and more often then not itโs been cannibalised by one of the megacorp pages like YouTube or reddit where interactions are all dull and dead, soulless posting only for menial engagement instead of making friends