How to get out of an uncomfortable egg culture situation with this one simple trick.

Real talk: Calling people eggs is a violation of the egg prime directive, and is considered invalidating as you are trying to say that a person is not the gender they identify as, that their identity is invalid. Don’t call people eggs, like ever, it’s extremely uncool.

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Wait when did “egg” in the context of gender and sexuality become a thing?

“You egg” is an old insult in New Zealand since at least the 1980s meaning you are a dork or loveable idiot.

Edit: there’s heaps of examples in Taika Waititi’s NZ films.

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Realising one is trans is often called “cracking your egg”. Calling someone an egg in this context means insinuating the person is trans (and hasn’t realised it yet).

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@tb_ thanks, got it. Has it been a thing for many years or is it new?

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Not many years, but far from new in internet time scales. Maybe in the last decade or so.

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Not necessarily trans, it’s just being unsure about which gender direction you want to choose. Nonbinary and “actually I am cis” are also valid outcomes after cracking.

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Wild that you just called gender a choice

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Shakespeare uses it too!

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@JohnDClay @Malgas omg this is as good as the time I found out Hieronymous Bosch had painted a kiwi bird.

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Can you share a Pic of the Kiwi bird please ? 🥺

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It’s similar to being in the closet. When you come out as a trans person, you “come out of your shell” so to speak. As such, people who haven’t are considered to be “eggs” still inside their shells.

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While we are talking about that, wouldn’t chrysalis be more fitting?

When the trans person hatches a beautiful butterfly emerges from the chrysalis.

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They say that when the egg cracks, a cute chick comes out. Chick referring to both a trans woman and a baby chicken. Doesn’t work for trans men but that’s how the term started I believe.

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Perhaps. I didn’t make the analogy. Personally, as a completely cis person, I think they both work really well. Maybe there’s some more significant meaning from another perspective.

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I think if you make sure to call someone an “igg”, or preferably, a “bliddy igg”, then should still be fine

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Preferably while listening to Iminim’s Lose Yoursilf.

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@Viking_Hippie aww man now I know how Americans feel when people reference Trump’s stupid sayings as if it’s their national culture.

Hadn’t thought about those assholes in a while.

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@porous_grey_matter I think I just need to make sure I only use it on other Kiwis.

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Not the birds, though. That would be the equivalent of calling them babies, which I’d imagine they’d find very insulting.

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Also Shakespeare:

What, you egg! [He Stabs Him]

Macbeth Act 4, Scene 2

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