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Why would anyone write “enby” when nb is shorter and whose meaning can much more easily be guessed at by people like me wondering what it means…?

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  • I have a swype keyboard that types enby faster than MNB (edit: and with less typos)

  • Enby is a word instead of an initialism and flows more naturally in conversation

  • Enby is a term in use by the enby community, and using it shows I know what I’m talking about

  • Enby is a more “cuddly” word that makes us sound more relatable than an initialism

  • People in the enby community say enby more often in casual conversation, and I wished to convey a casual tone

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Don’t forget “nb” is used to denote non-black, so out of respect and to avoid confusion, as well as for all the good reasons you’ve listed, “enby” is the preferred term.

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Ok, I get what you mean. My counterpoints would be that nb in writing wouldn’t “flow” differently because typing isn’t the same as speaking. Out of context, a lot of insider terms get lost.

But you do you.

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Do you have aphasia? Most people have a voice in their head that reads things to them. Helping the voice read my text with a better flow leads to less headaches for readers.

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nb is already used to mean “non-black”. The phonetic spelling “enby” is used to prevent any confusion

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That makes sense and is the answer I sought :) thank you kind stranger

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