cross-posted from: https://linux.community/post/792581
Overbearing manager means somebody for whom relaxing after doing your job or reading on downtime means lazying around.
My mom was a nurse. For her there was no down time. Usually she couldn’t even stop to eat lunch. She’d just grab a granola bar or something and keep going. Hospitals are dangerously understaffed.
Yet there were still some people who would stand around chatting or whatever while her arthritic ass ran around the floor taking care of people.
So some people knew it is healthy to carve out downtime instead of relying on management to give it to them.
In most lines of work, that’s perfectly fine. In a hospital, someone can die if there isn’t enough help.
But again, this is entirely the hospital management’s fault for failing to properly staff their hospitals.
Okay, and…? Do you think people in the business of saving lives shouldn’t get downtime at all, just all go from clock in to clock out? Like it’s a concentration camp instead of a hospital?
Your mum sounds like she’s awesome, but she remind me so much of mine. Self-sacrificing to a fault, and potentially like she struggled to internalise that she needed breaks, because otherwise “someone (could) die”.
I reject the idea that HCW, or any kind of emergency or life support workers for that matter, should be treated like slaves because of the consequences to others if they are treated as fairly as other workers in less urgent lines of work.