Interested in any/all perspectives, how are the sensations different or similar, do you have a preference and why, is one or the other more erotic to think about, out of 10, how would you rank the best vaginal vs the best anal?

And if you have a penis and experience penetrating both, definitely answer the same questions!

Reason I ask is I have a penis and find vaginal penetration very hot (both thinking about it and doing it lol), and I’m curious what it feels like, but the closest I’ll get to experiencing it myself is either in dreams or however similar anal penetration is. So I wanted to see what y’all thought 😊

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Are anal orgasms possible for you without any other stimulation?

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It has happened before! Usually I need clitoral stimulation but sometimes it does happen without, like if he’s got a curve or I’m positioned in the right angle. From what past partners have said anal is great because it grips so tightly but just at the opening, after that it’s far less stimulating than vaginal penetration. So for me it’s nice sometimes but PIV will always win, hands down.

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This is pretty much my experience from the other side of things. Anal is fun, it’s mostly going in that feels incredible.

To note one big difference, if there is a toy involved (as in DP), totally different story - feels incredible the whole time! Now we just need another penis to enjoy and we can see how that feels.

In general, PIV is my go to, love being able to see my wife’s eyes, or how her expression changes while I’m inside her. That right there is more of a turn on than anything else.

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I’ve only done DP with a toy but I agree it feels incredible! MFM is one of my bucket list items 😉 it’s really hard to beat PIV. I 100% agree, being able to see your partner’s face, whisper in their ear when something feels good is the best. It’s all a huge turn on 😊

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