N.B. misandry is not real because men are not systemically oppressed (uninternalize your reddit MRA today: men suffer some drawbacks under the patriarchy but ultimately still maintain it due to the large amount of privileges they receive under it!)
And I’m not saying any of that, so, maybe go try to figure out what I am saying and see where that gets you
That’s what it looks like to me too, what exactly are you trying to say then?
Mostly that male violence against women is typically (but not always) part of a systemic problem, and women violence against men is typically (but not always) a response to that systemic problem.