lies, hexbear users would never besmirch someone for eating beans

You silly Hexbear, that’s the fakest story I’ve ever heard in my life.

Why would somebody bother making a movie about a plastic doll for little girls?

I agree with this tbh

We are aggressive and combative against racism, ableism, transaphobia or when someone is attacking one of us or our community…that is what gives us the moral high ground.

Those are literally the only things we have got remotely aggressive with on the fediverse so far.

In the early days, this sub was constantly brigaded by chuds, terfs, libs, patsocs, wreckers and branches of leftism that were somehow even more online than us and had an irrational hatred of us for reasons that frankly I never cared enough to bother learning. Like any such place, that means we’re used to people coming in “just asking questions” with a bad take, and turning out to be a concern troll rather than someone asking in good faith and open to changing their mind.

This produced a culture of radical, frank struggle sessions, an approach to moderation that the Cheka circa 1919 would think lacks due process (and is good and cool and has made this place possibly the most LGBT friendly place on the net.), and a bad habit of dunking for a laugh. We’re not nearly as edgy as a first impression might give, though.

We’re hyper aggressive when it comes to certain things like hate.

This is then used by racists and bigots to claim we’re aggressive all the time. And because they say it ALL THE TIME it begins to be believed by people, even if that’s literally the only context in which they’ve seen our people get that hostile.

Chapo Trap House is a leftish comedy podcast with three (later four, then five, now back to three) hosts that knew each other from twitter. It mostly commented on happenings in politics with regular segments going over the latest right wing bullshit, and was one of few places that would criticize the democrats as well. The /r/chapotraphouse subreddit was nominally for discussion of the podcast but it quickly outgrew that and became a general-purpose left-wing subreddit with a focus on irreverent shitposting and hostility towards outsiders. Fast-forward a bit and the podcast hosts remark that they don’t like the subreddit anymore because people were criticizing them for various things, but nonetheless the subreddit continued to grow. A long-running joke that the “official podcast of the subreddit” was actually an entirely different podcast called Citations Needed began.

/r/cth was getting too big for the admins at reddit (one of whom thinks he’ll own slaves in the post-apocalypse to give you an idea of their politics) and was banned for ill-defined reasons of “promoting hate” against slave owners (perhaps the reddit admin was insulted by this). In the aftermath of the banning, some people got together on a discord channel and a variety of volunteers got to work creating the website chapo.chat using lemmy. A couple months(?) later, chapo.chat was complete, though it forked from lemmy relatively early on and would be unable to federate for some time. A variety of comms were made, including /c/chapotraphouse, which then was ostensibly for discussion of both Chapo Trap House and Citations Needed, though this wasn’t enforced or anything.

After some time, the admins decided to change the site name from chapo.chat to hexbear.net, because they no longer wished to associate with the podcast. In a completely failed attempt to encourage the growth of other communites on the site, the default “Main” comm was closed. Rather than this leading to the increased use of other comms that the admins were hoping for, /c/chapotraphouse became the new default comm. And finally, after much work from the dev team, hexbear.net reverted back to lemmy and was able to federate.

In summary: Chapo Trap House is a podcast.

I wonder if it’s because you have an in-culture that they don’t understand.

Definitely partially true. Some people have read posts here and made posts elsewhere saying things like “they’re right wingers pretending to be leftist” because they can’t understand satire and irony without having it spelled out to them and they’re automatically trying to assume the worst instead of realising that the entire instance is irony poisoned.

CTH is a podcast, the subreddit was originally about it but quickly became its own thing. The podcast is your typical Brooklyn leftist hot couch thing where you get a bit of theory mixed in with a lot of jokes and parasocial relationships.

A long running joke is that the subreddit/Hexbear is actually a Citations Needed fanclub, because it’s a much a better podcast.

I would just like to be an anecdotal nuisance and say that I found this community without knowing or interacting with the chapotraphouse podcast or subreddit

You’re correct to be jealous of us. Although, I think we managed to port that feature upstream to the main Lemmy thingy as an optional feature? Check with your instance administrator!