Hi all,
New to Lemmy and interested in hot straight men and chatting with them? Are there any active communities where this is possible?
I noticed a lot of porn (totally fine, just not for me) and some communities that are about celebrities.
Any recommendations? Thank you in advance!
Via the Lemmy Explorer on lemmyverse.net, I found !chat@lemmynsfw.com but I do not know how much that is what you are looking for (I mean, it is not 1-on-1 and there are other people there than straight men as well).
However, feel free to send me a direct message if you want to chat with me.
Hey hey thanks for your comment and for your help as well! I just checked it out but it doesn’t seem to be that active.
It seems I overestimated NSFW and Lemmy. I think having a lot of of porn and naked women is interesting for male users, but also female users are curious about men and might also be interested in seeing a hot guy or two to start posting and to stay on Lemmy 🤫
Can I really private message you? Thanks again for your reply.
Benefits of being a lesbian 😅
But yeah, lemmynsfw definitely can be a bit of a sausage fest. The Fediverse and Lemmy especially are niche enough that a lot of the users are techy types (like yours truly, heh) which does tend to still bring a gender bias with it.
If you have the spoons for it, you could occasionally post the kind of stuff you’d like to see? It might feel like shouting into the void since yeah, not a lot of women here (probably more gay guys), but every change has to start somewhere, right?
Might have to create and mod communities though, which is a whole 'nother can of worms if posting isn’t restricted
Thanks for your thoughts and recs 🙏
Yeah I’m noticing myself that Lemmy has a lot of (techy) people around. Just curious because it’s a shame one website has monopoly over everything.
I don’t think NSFW content is bad, I feel like in fact having different sections for NSFW posts makes community bigger because it attracts people.
I did notice that a lot of people have “sex is dirty” mindset (elsewhere not here) and then they can get pretty rude and underhanded like anything goes because basically they associate sex with something dark and secretive.
And I agree with you that in those instances having good mods is essential. It’s a fine line how to mod properly but not scare folks away.
Talk to @NodachiDicc@lemmynsfw.com . He will sort you out.
I’m a territorial guy when it comes to my wife but you could be her hallpass and I wouldn’t be mad.
Oh humblebrag, you know you’re pretty 😀 And you so are! I’m not even into guys (for the most part anyhow) but I’ve got functioning frickin eyeballs
lol. I’m surprised you haven’t been inundated with replies of “I’m a hot straight man”
Having said that…
I’m a lukewarm mostly straight man
No, not at all. If anything I’ve gotten a few polite and friendly messages but nothing mean or arrogant (yet)
I just don’t think there are that many users for NSFW communities to be super active.
Yeah idk honestly. I came here to get a little kinky but have mostly just lurked and I’m guessing that’s most people. It does seem to be a pretty small community. I used to use Snapchat and I broadcast on Chaturbate infrequently but it seems hard to find what I’m looking for too - which used to a lot of trading nudes with people on Snapchat but they all disappeared
im seconding this post. I dont have any info tho sorry :(