How did it end? Did they date then?
I feel like there are so many dudes whoâd fall in love if only both parties were women, and thatâs beautifulâŚ
All the straight boys you know have probably at some poiot been devastated to remember they are tecnnically not lesbians, because dick.
Seriously though
The feminine (and, by extension, lesbian) is constantly portrayed in such a sweet and gentle way and masculine us always so rough that I canât help but say âlesbian relationships to me, pleaseâ
And Iâm a guy.
Where tf did we lose those cute gentle hetero relationships and representation? Okay thereâs GFD, but barely anyone notices it and itâs strictly about women taking the lead and mostly sexual, which is only one side of the story.
I had someone tell me âHe/Him Lesbiansâ were a thing recently and they werenât referring to FTM Transguys either (Which I was relieved by as that would be a horribly offensive thing to call that crowd since a lesbian is a woman who exclusively is attracted to other women, and FTMs are NOT women.) Somedays I just donât know if Iâm getting too old and set in my ways or if the world has just lost the plot.
These days I just kinda ânodâ at things and go along with them even if I donât agree or understand, within reason of course. (iâm not going to let anyone take fucking dieting advice from a breatharian)
Unpopular opinion : once you start blurring the lines of what gender is, the straightness based definitions of things go out the window.
An FTM and MTF relationship is something alright. None of my business.
but, linguistically speaking, I donât think straight as a label applies to it, even though itâs male + female.
it ties into the difference between someone being pansexual, and bisexual.
he/him lesbians is largely a historical teem referring to lesbians in the 1980s scene who would identify as (typically butch) women but go by he/him pronouns (see stone butch blues)
(but itâs old enough that some people have rediscovered it)
Iâm just gonna leave this here in case it changes somebodyâs life: https://medium.com/the-identity-current/plight-of-the-transbian-4ab1a048b09b
I am a happily being a guy but I identified with Samuel in that story more than I ever would have guessed would have been possible. I have always been jealous of how easy it is for women to make friends and how tender their friendship are. I have never gotten along with macho guys and multiple times in my life people thought I was gay (I am only attracted to women, I just want tender friendships like women have with each other)âŚ
There is a bad bitch inside of all of us lowkey. But at least in RPGs I like to be a chick because I usually like the clothing options.
Iâve always said, if youâre going to stare at someoneâs ass for the next 200 hoursâŚ
Baldurâs gate made a whole lot of believers; every character in that game is hot as fuck, including the horned demon lady. Especially the horned demon lady.
I love everything about BG3
Proves you can have a gender system that doesnât feel as forced as âBody Type A/Bâ and in the process accommodate a larger portion of the gender spectrum.
It also shows you can be Pro-Woman AND Pro-Sexuality, you donât need to go the route of âEveryone looks like a guy, and boobs donât existâ, you can just have hot chicks fucking hot chicks, hot guys fucking hot guys, turn into a bear and get your freak onâŚ
I get that mediaâs trying to change its tune to be more inclusive because weâve kinda just catered to white guys for too long, and genderâs proving slightly more complicated than initially believe, but⌠BG3 did it in a way thatâs actually fun, inclusive, and awesome, instead of feeling like lazy pandering that doesnât really help anyone outside of Right Wingers looking to get mad about shit.
The tale as old as the internet.