I’m shamelessly stealing that person idea, because I think it’s an interesting question.
Personally I’m into porn involving some forms of abuse, often it’s rape but it could also be just spanking or gaslight. Of course I’m not into that in real life. I know CNC is a thing, same with consensual SM and I could be into trying those one day, but I don’t see myself doing that with my husband anytime soon, and it’s different when it’s planned in advance, which is not always the case in the story presented in porn.
Man, I’ve become rather unfond of porn at all. I’ve gotten to the point that it’s written erotica and fantasy for me. Porn has gotten so ugly so often that it’s all just offputting for me.
That being said, back when I did use porn, it was anal. It’s one of those things that is very rarely on my list of things to do (for my own pleasure, I’ll do it if a partner wants it), but it uses to be arousing because of the implied openness and trust (which, I know, isn’t the case in porn, but that’s the part that makes me willing to do it irl). It’s the idea of “oh, I’ll share everything with you” that’s interesting about it in porn.
Irl, I still get turned on by that idea, but anal itself is not anywhere near as enjoyable as vaginal sex. To the contrary, sometimes it’s distinctly unenjoyable for various reasons.
I think it would be like those exagerated athletic movements in porn (mostly in harcore videos). They look good in porn, but in reality they are very tiring or borderline impossible for a common person.
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In porn i always look for 20-something looking girls, but IRL I always found myself physically attracted girls (women) of my age bracket… So definitely older.
Porn makes the look more interesting than personality, and in real life I think it’s the opposite. I definitely sometimes enjoy porn with 20 something guys too, but I don’t see myself going out with them, even if I was single.
I follow alot of hot Instagram models. They are amazing to look at. But if you ever attend a rare IG Live they do, they are some of the most vacuous, money minded people I’ve ever encountered.
One girl literally had the “cash me outside” girls schtick. I couldn’t help myself and sent a message saying it’s a good thing she’s pretty, then left.
Large gay, fat round juicy gay male penises and hard gay male cocks.
I’m a male. I’m not gay irl just in porn land.
I mean hey, I thought that might be the case for me, but uh… one thing led to another and it turns out sucking a cock in real life is incredibly hot. YMMV though 😅
Same with me. It was a big secret fantasy till I spilled the beans to my wife who encouraged me to try it
I’m glad it worked out for you!!! My partner is also encouraging. Good reminder to be incredibly thankful we have them in our lives ❤️