Context: I currently have a back injury and as such my sleep schedule has been destroyed. There are days that I simply cannot get comfortable no matter where I sit/lie.
The other night I was restless and couldn’t get comfortable but was feeling tired. I wanted to brew myself a cup of tea but as luck would have it we had run out of fill-able tea bags. I pulled out the metal tea infusers and found that due to an improper cleaning at last use and who knows how long they had been sitting idle they were absolutely disgusting. Some had mold spots and one appeared to be rusting (how aluminum rusts I don’t know).
I REALLY wanted my tea so I busted out my cleaning tools and got to work. She woke up to use the restroom and heard me in the kitchen and made it a point to call me out for being weird and that no one in their right mind would be doing what I was doing.
Is that a fair assessment? I only spent about 50 minutes cleaning them.
You have autism. It’s cool though. Keep doing your thing.
So you’ve stumbled into ADHD through the side door eh?
she woke up to use the restroom.
More likely all the noise you were making did it. Yeah Buddy, looks like you might be in a bad spot. Listen to your wife and figure out what needs to change.
I’m sorry to hear you married a muggle.
Whether it’s normal or not should not be on anyone’s list of concerns, unless they’re trying to fit in through deception.
If my wife or I caught each other doing something like that, our instinct would not be to complain, and certainly not by suggesting there’s anything wrong with being weird.
I’d much rather be weird than boring.
I mean there is being restless and there is being loud and starting a project at 3am.
I’m not saying you’ve done a bad thing here but yeah you are blurring trust line of weird behavior.