46 points

Never needing to work again and actually having energy to do things would probably do the trick.

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11 points

We can be friends

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It helps, but then you have to supplant your own meaning life, or one can very quickly spiral into doing nothing and becoming depressed. Capitalism sucks, but work doesn’t; it gives us direction and purpose.

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My friend, I assume, and I find plenty of meaning in accomplishing simple tasks and finding interesting ways to express ourselves. No labor needed. Only little rabbit holes to constantly fall into.

Edit: btw I don’t approve of all the downvotes you got. A lot of meaning can be found in, exhausting, intense, hard work. Most of that is stripped away by being forced to do it, though.

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32 points

Just one day without tinnitus would make me happy.

Take care of your ears.

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Mine eventually (after years) faded into the background and now it only really bothers me if I’m in a quiet place.

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10 points

Can’t emphasize this enough.

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Just live in a loud environment! Oh god I wish I could know silence again. Nothing like going out into nature and you hear a ringing the whole time

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29 points

Probably a loving partner, and enough therapy to be able to have a healthy relationship. But that’s a lot of work, so I mostly try to be happy in my solitude.

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It’s a lot of work for sure. Good luck to you 🙂 🤍

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5 points

Thanks. Trying to fix myself up more first

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4 points

Sounds like a solid plan!

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I’m a person who enjoys their solitude. I know my partners not the same but I also know there are other people who very much like to stay to themselves. Maybe you can find someone who you can both be in solitude together with.

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That would be great, but I’m pretty bad at meeting new people so 🤷

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Same. Working on boundaries and seeing some improvement. Definitely not where I want to be, but much better than where I used to be.

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4 points

I’m definitely worse lol

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His name is

H1Jack

Cadillac

on the track.

He’s getting back

in the black

on the attack

blocking flak

making you yak

yo slimy gak

like ipecac

cause you whack.

But in his pack

we got no lack

with H1 Jack.

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A friend that both plays the same video games I like so we can play together and also fucks me.

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16 points

Are we doing this? Be gentle.

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Gentle? But babe, I just lost to Promised Consort Radahn 157 times in a row; I need to vent that anger.

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13 points

We’re going to need some lube

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2 points

bummer I was gonna offer the first part but i fear it’s contingent on the second part

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Oh yes, this might do.

Ground rules:

  1. Loser sucks
  2. Git gud if you want that chastity off.
  3. Winner buys dinner.
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26 points

If I learned how to prioritize sleep without feeling guilty

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I do it like this. The world’s a better place for everyone if I’m properly rested. Especially me.

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Sleep’s one of the best free pleasures around. It’s free, it heals your body and mind, and just feels good.

I’ve fought a lot with insomnia in recent years and truly appreciate when I’m able to get a good night’s sleep. I’d rather have a bit shorter days, but feel much better due to being well rested whenever possible. How does sleeping make you feel guilty?

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