I mean look… there’s adventure, excitement, she’s the captain of the starship, and the ratio of men/women seems to be in her favor plus she may go for both anyways. She’s in THE perfect position, what’s the rush?
She is just that dedicated… to preventing any possibility of Harry Kim getting a promotion!
Captain Janeway is clever like a fox crazy like a wolverine and loyal like a golden retriever unless you happen to be involved in a transporter accident and she’ll murder you like a baboon…
But in numerous captain’s logs Janeway explains how their adventures weren’t a delay at all, and actually saved them lots of time.