Sex with another person was in some ways disappointing when compared to masturbation and porn. I value emotional intimacy and you can’t get that by masturbating, but if OP is interested purely in physical pleasure then he may in fact be better off on his own. Obviously your mileage may vary - lots of other people do enjoy casual sex so I guess they must get more than I would from it.
(I’m single now but in case a future partner sees this: you’re different and I definitely enjoy sex with you more than anything else.)
Idk, my physical pleasure is heightened by sharing it with my SO. The more I please them, the more I get into it and the better the whole experience is. If both partners are focused on maximizing the others’ pleasure, it’s way better than just doing it yourself.
Cope. Also, thinking that casual sex is the standard is self defeating if pleasure is the goal. Casual sex is cool because it requires very little of the participants. Get off and get going, everyone is somewhere between satiety and scratched itch in terms of payoff.
Long term partnered sex is like an ongoing conversation about pleasure and likes and dislikes and leads to way more fulfilling encounters. It can also just scratch the itch but has more upstream pleasure potential ime.
Stop whacking off for five minutes and see if your views change.
You mean it is a kink so annoying that it will put you off porn for a while because of how often it is mentioned around that time of year?
Yeah totally /s
Memes aside just cutting porn (or whatever else gets you off) for even a week or two teaches you a lot about yourself. You can do the same for any habit you want
Now this is the part where people come out of the woodwork to say you and a dozen puppies will die if you take a break from porn. You’ll be fine, trust me.
Another level of cope.
