I tried chatting on some of the recommended apps on Reddit and I can confirm that none of them work.

Which bring me to the following question: How do you find people who are interested in long-term relationships online?

Note: Please donโ€™t suggest looking in the real life.

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Kink dating apps seem to work well for me. Also rather than swiping on repeats and ladies that arenโ€™t my type I block, sounds heartless but its good to have a boundary and stops mainstream dating apps from repeating the same people. personal I avoid woman who in every photo are at a club, wear brands, plastic surgery, essentially they have life styles at odds from mine. Outdoorsy, intelligent seems my type so basically donโ€™t shy from setting boundary.

And like most other comments have mentioned, pursue your passion, if thats video game, science fiction or sports, post about it, have discussions and genuinely seek positive interactions.

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Beats the fuck out of me. This form of social media always has that trait of disposable conversations, but then again, when youโ€™ve been alone as long as I have you tend to be crazy enough to convince yourself that your mania is just a new normal and you didnโ€™t need anyone to start with.

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Discord is the only way gang

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You have to be kinda attractive, I found my wife that way, she messaged me, thatโ€™s how we met

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Ah, piss. Glad I threw in the towel early.

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