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A good pair of shoes, especially if you’re on your feet a lot. Your body will thank you now and in the future for spending a couple hundred bucks on a pair of good quality shoes. It depends on what you’re doing but I do most of my running around in ASICS and I can feel the difference if I wear almost anything else. There are good choices in Brooks, Saucony, New Balance, and Mizuno as well

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Agreed. I usually wear On. I know a ton of people love Hoka (I think they’re ugly). But my MIL has really bad hip/knee/ankle issues and she has to be on her feet for work all day. Hoka was a life saver when she found them

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If you don’t have one grab a cheap blender. Moderately healthy fruit smoothies for pennies on the dollar compared to a smoothie shop.

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frozen fruit is crazy cheap and the texture is much better than ice cubes+fresh fruit

and the frozen fruit is often riper than the fresh grocery store fruit

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18 points

A nice chair

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Especially if you spend large amounts of time sitting at a desk. Nice chair helps soooo much

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On the same kind of note, a mattress and good quality linens, or blackout blinds and a humidifier. Anything that improves your sleep is huge.

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4 points

Silk pillowcases.

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5 points

Secondhand Herman Miller Aeron 🗣️🗣️🗣️

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4 points

Are they good? I remember they used to advertise so heavily on NPR that I figured they were not.

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I think they’re uncomfortable, but a lot of people swear by them.

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3 points

They’re generally considered the gold standard in office chairs, and you can get them fairly cheap from office liquidation sales. Steelcase is another good brand if it’s not Miller Time for you

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5 points

At an old job, I liked my chair so much that I called the barely-visible number on the faded sticker on the bottom to find out what it was, found out it was an Aeron and got me one. The great thing about a new one is the long-ass warranty. An arm snapped off mine maybe 7 years after I got it and they replaced both arms.

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Yes, I’d also add Herman Miller Sayl to that list of best office chairs

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Secondhand Herman Miller anything. Or steelcase.

Herman Miller Aeron. Herman Miller Embody. Herman Miller Mirra. Steelcase Gesture. Steelcase Leap.

A good chair is a huge quality of life improvement if you’re an office worker or PC gamer.

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Depends entirely on what you have. I’d say a used eReader and a VPN is one of the absolute best bang for your buck entertainment methods, but you can get by with your phone for reading if you don’t read much. An Aeropress is fantastic for those who like coffee and don’t have anything for making it. A good pillow, socks, shoes, and underwear goes a very long way, as does a comfy hoodie and sweatpants for lounging. Most of these can be quite inexpensive. If you’re vegan, a good quality blender is night and day for making sauces and creams, milks, etc, or even a gym membership or set of dumbells can be massive for your fitness goals if you have any, along with a scale for you and a scale for food if this is something you personally want to do. No personal responsibility bullshit.

Try to think of what’s missing from your life, any habits you wish you had to supplement your life or any you think need improvement, and go from there! This answer varies from person to person.

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If you have pets I highly recommend a robot vacuum. I have a Roomba brand one but other brands have decent ones too. Having a freshly vacuumed floor every day is sooo nice.

They do like 90% as good a job vacuuming as a person does but if you’re like me vacuuming more than twice a week feels like a lot, so 90% every day on a set schedule is better overall.

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How well do those work around household clutter though?

I think I might be a pretty un-neat person…

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Gotta take 5 mins to clear the floor before running it, yeah

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Depends on the clutter. Cables are the thing it really hates. Definitely helps to pick up the floor before you run it though, even if that’s just throwing stuff onto the nearest surface.

Personally I found it just makes me less bad about leaving shit on the floor, something I used to be really bad about.

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Fabrics, papers, cables, hair ties. Ask your self “will this slide under the roomba?” Or “will two spinning rollers or a spinning brush latch on to this?” Otherwise if the object is big enough or heavy enough it’ll bounce off it or navigate around it.

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Yeah I got one several months ago and can’t live without it now. Not sure about any other brands, but the roborock maps your house and let’s you set up schedules so it can do things like cleaning up around the litter box once an hour. It cleans the whole house before I wake up and stepping out onto freshly swept carpet every morning is amazing. Have a routine for after meals where it cleans the kitchen and around the dining table. But mostly yeah never stepping on litter again is amazing if you have a cat.

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The nicer/newer roomba brand ones do the same thing. I set it to do the living room and office before I wake up and then it does the bedroom while I’m at work, it’s great. It also does straight parallel vacuum lines on the floor, which is a small detail but is super nice.

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twice a week

What

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Are you saying you vacuum more or less often than that? Having a dog and two cats ideally I’d vacuum every day but I simply do not have the energy for that. Twice a week is me being good, once a week is probably what I do more often.

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Waaaay less. Vacuum loud and crap. Maybe once a month.

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Gotta agree. Especially if your place is tiles or hard floors. I got a second hand one like ten years ago and it’s still going, though I’ve had to fix it up and replace parts over the years. They’re literally perfect if you have pets tbh. Definitely a bougie option but a worthy one.

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