Having tried all three, its a stark difference in how much more social Lemmy is comparatively. Its not even close. Almost all posts I’ve encountered on lemmy have interaction; whereas, more often than not, posts on the other two platforms have no interaction. Wonder what the driving factor is behind this difference?

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I’ve never heard of Nostr but Mastodon is a twitter clone and I don’t find that style of website suits discussion well since you subscribe to accounts rather than communities.

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It’s an interesting dynamic!

I find myself talking more on lemmy as others say because it’s easier/made for talking about topics. Mastodon and other fedi services center around following the account that made a thing rather than the thing(s) themselves. And that’s fine, both have their place.

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I think the other aspect is the easy to follow discussion threads. IMO it’s the cleanest way to show and follow branching discussions.

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I do like how it “looks” the most on topics. I wish mastodon had something similar revolving around their posts/hashtags.

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You follow hashtags. It’s what I do and it’s been a good experience so far.

It’s about the same as on Lemmy engagement-wise.

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I’ve never understood what twitter style websites are actually for. They seem to have a tiny niche of celebrities and known personalities making a statement with no reasonable conversation stemming from it.

I don’t understand how that structure was once one of the largest social media platforms in the first place.

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In my experience Twitter was for modern Seinfeld jokes, mastodon is for monsterdon Sundays at 9pm et, and Lemmy is for commenting on Internet stuff.

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the content is github

a distribution / marketing site is pypi

you are interacting with technologists.

The content already exists. And are interacting around that content. Rather than generating more and more content forever in a loop leading to nothing but more noise.

And you have direct access to these people! If a reasonable conversation is lacking it’s cuz you are not bringing the party to the bar.

You are the star that makes the conversation happen.

So dial up a person 100x smarter than you. And find something to ask them.

Like a ChatGPT but will actual intelligence and passion at the other end.

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I assume because people follow topics on lemmy, unlike microblogging where people have to follow each other to interact (one-to-many vs one-to-one). So it’s easier to interact with many people that you don’t necessarily had to be following prior, which increases the chances of interacting with more people.

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you can follow hashtags. I follow #opensource and a few other interests and I’ve found some interesting stuff you don’t generally see in other places. but yes, the format is completely different and I find lemmy allows for better discussion than Mastodon.

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Yeah Mastodon seems way less about discussion and way more about surfacing cool shit you wouldn’t otherwise see.

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you can follow hashtags.

Interesting. Perhaps I should give mastodon another go.

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It’s probably that Lemmy is communities but mastodon is individuals

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rock stars, not individuals

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Werewolves not swearwolves

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Well Mastadon is good for screaming into the void and hope someone shouts back. Lemmy is kind of like a forum type community where you already know someone is going to like your topic if it’s in the right sub.

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Well Mastadon is good for screaming into the void and hope someone shouts back.

It’s good for small hobbyist communities that get built up from IRL spaces or broader online collaborations. If I’ve got a school group or hobbyist club and I want a bespoke “members only” social media space, Mastadon works great. Like Discord without all the obnoxious pop-in “Would you like to give us $40/mo for glittery icons?!” nitro ads.

Lemmy is kind of like a forum type community where you already know someone is going to like your topic if it’s in the right sub call you an idiot for doing things a different way and throwing up a bunch of dumb memes in your technical sub.

Reddit-brain is all over Lemmy. This is a far cry from the technical focused communities you’ll find on Github or StackExchange.

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[…] call you an idiot for doing things a different way […]

Reddit-brain is all over Lemmy. This is a far cry from the technical focused communities you’ll find on Github or StackExchange.

Have you used StackExchange? It’s very much “call you an idiot for doing things in a different way.”

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Honestly, I think is the whole ”First Post” mindset.

When you post a reply on Mastodon, it is more intimate, the only people who see it are the original tooter and anyone who actively seeks more commentary. It is a dialogue between two people, or multiple dialogues between one person and many others.

Lemmy is more like a forum, where everyone can see all comments, right underneath the original post. It is more like an open-table discussion.

It is not that Lemmy is more social, it is just less personal.

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One of the big things driving interaction is that Lemmy’s default comment sorting algorithm is a bit backwards to reddit’s. As long as you get upvoted once, newer comments will appear at the top. So even if you participate late in a discussion, you’re likely going to get responded to by other latecomers.

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The fact that comments are prioritised by simple rules, an not by some sort of monolithic ALGORITHM, keeps the discussion dynamic.

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It’s still an algorithm.

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