As an ADHD person, I either stop the activity to watch, or I’m so turned on from it all I pop a bit too soon. I just decide it’s better without.

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That would be way too distracting, porn is the precursor only in our home

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Na, I think it’s a precursor in some other homes too.

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Not for me, plus no TV in the bedroom, never.

Erotica or porn is good for keeping libido up, in general. I don’t like it as a part of IRL sex.

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Too much fakery for my tastes. I want to hear the nuances of my partner, not some squeal or squeaky toy

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I never do this. It degrades the reality of what you are doing by watching fantasy

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Erotica over porn, preferably. Just to help set the mood. If porn for porn, then it has to be really nice porn, like old fashion porn parody or something along those lines. Hardcore, never.

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