Rather than put my answers, I will leave space for you to jump in directly with yours:-).
There’s many but some new ones for me:
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They shit talk others behind their back as a hobby. They’ll do it to you too
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They’re not curious about things. I’ll get bored due to lack of interesting conversation
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They never take ownership of fault or apologize. Everything will be blamed on you
Apparently if you do a - followed by a space it formats as a bulleted list!
Holy fuck yes. Also, if you truly wanted a line starting with a dash, like for a quote attribution, preface it with a backslash character \ . I’ll show it here:
- me, just now:-P
You can do quote blocks with a in front of the line
You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take
- Wayne Gretzky
Cruelty or aggression towards other people. You might be treated differently early in the relationship but eventually that’s gonna be you on the receiving end.
How they respond to them asking me to do something and I say, “No.” If they accept it without any problem and move on, that’s good. If they inquire about it to make sure they are respecting boundaries, I’m okay, or there’s something they can do to ameliorate a situation, that’s good. If they argue it or insist in anyway, then that’s a red flag. The reason is that they are implying that they don’t accept my desires and situation as important in and of itself. I am more of a tool to achieve what they want because they are not demonstrating care for my experience. They are demonstrating that they will fight for what they want, so consent is a task to be acquired/achieved, not an natural approval based on mutual benefit.
Booze and weed. I just don’t want it in my life anymore.
I would argue that it’s the “addiction” to those, or other substances (even work, or possibly even social media), but yeah I get you:-).
Love bombing
