Underwear is one of the things that I struggle to use second-hand, and I’m not sure if I intend to change that (lest some nowaste people teach me mystical ways and methods :P) But the fact is that I can only use what I’ve got currently for so long, and so I turn to you.

I am not looking for specific reccomendations exclusively, and the type of underwear (underpants, brasseries, undershirts) are all welcome for discussion! But I’m hoping to find advice which will help me find something that will last, and to a decent standard (i.e, don’t use polyester socks, due to smell).

So please lend your advice for finding Bras, Briefs, Bobbysocks, and Bundershirts!

EDIT: Also advice on what materials are better suited to different climates is also well appreciated! (I tend to leave my posts personal detail agnostic so they can serve as resources for others :))

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Jeebus, don’t buy underwear for life, that’s like buying toilet paper for life. Some things in life are inherently consumables and you have to get used to that. Buy whatever underwear fits you and is comfortable and not overpriced, and replace it when you have to. Material preferences will depend on you, your habits, climate, etc.

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That’s true, although some brands will still be better than others for quality at a certain price point, or cost/wear

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sorry, I poorly communicated. I noted this probably isn’t the right comm, but I’m hoping for advice on what things to look out for to ensure something that will last. Although on the toilet paper note, I hear some zerowaste people have something similar. No point to that, just felt like mentioning it haha

also undershirts and shapewear are underwear, but i didn’t have a better all encompassing title, and to americans underwear = underpants alternate words are welcome, so I can edit :)

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Heyo, just wanted to clarify your post is absolutely appropriate for this community, as despite the name, it is not exclusive to only things that literally last forever, we also welcome things that just last longer than average :)

Also @hitmyspot@lemmy.world and @solrize@lemmy.world

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thank you for the clarification :)

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OK, well, anyway I don’t think you should ask gender neutrally since the women’s underthings universe is completely different from the one for dudes. Brassieres in particular are a nontrivial feat of structural engineering that have to make various technological and cost trade-offs to provide the best mix of comfort and support. I don’t wear them myself, but my lady friends tell me that you really have to shop around til you find a model that you like, then buy multiple units, and that they will probably be expensive.

My gender has an easier time of it. I just get the 9-packs of cheap white cotton ones at Target most of the time. The sizes run small so take that into consideration. The usual failure mode is that the elastic band around the top gradually detaches from the fabric underneath. If you’re frugal you can repair that with some stitches.[1] Later the fabric starts falling apart or getting holes. In principle you could patch it, but really, just throw the damn things away (compost bin should be fine as they are mostly cotton) and buy new ones. I probably somehow lose them more frequently than I wear them out.

[1] If you want to go full on toxic(?) masculinity about this, the reamer in your Swiss army knife has a little hole, whose purpose is to let you use the reamer as a sewing needle. Here is a video about how to do it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m92P6f8miBw

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I kept the post pretty gender neutral because I wanted to contribute to making a kind of ‘psuedo masterpost’ on the topic, and am hoping to invite a large swathe of experiences (goodness knows lemmy needs some haha)

A problem for me is I’ve always been too stingy to experiment, as your friends have, though I’m hoping to change and develop from there, but am hoping for advice to help narrow things down

kinda wish i had a swiss army knife now. will a woodcutting axe suffice?

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Seconding Darn Though socks. Best investment for your feet, not cheap but lifetime warratied!

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Reminder to please not abuse Darn Tough’s warranty everyone!

i.e. if you find a pair of darn tough socks at a thrift store for $1, cool great find! Enjoy your almost free, very long lasting pair of high quality socks. But that does not entitle you to turn around and return those socks for a warranty on a brand new pair forever.

People abusing warranties is how every lifetime warranty eventually gets gutted. So if you like the socks, support the brand so they stay around awhile.

P.S. they are Made in Vermont

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How are they for high temperatures?

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Fantastic. Merino Wool is excellent at moisture and temperature regulation. Also highly anti bacterial. Obviously they make them in all sorts of weights.

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Second this. Get a few pairs of different weights and you are set for life in all weather conditions.

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I have some concerns with wool and the ability to be washed often. I do like to change my underwear rather often… How is your experience?

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Bombas makes really high quality stuff that tends to last. Darn Tough socks have lifetime warranties, so they’ll replace old pairs for free.

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I have recently started buying bamboo based socks and boxer shorts, and it’s pretty great and seems to stay elastic and soft a really long time. A bit too soon for clear conclusions, but talking to others who have used it longer it seems promising.

Shouldn’t be too bad for the climate either, as bamboo is a pretty easy going and fast growing plant.

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Unfortunately the environmental impact depends on the processing used. The cheapest and easiest version is unfortunately chemically intensive and basically the same way they make rayon. There are other options, but then the price goes up. So extra due diligence is required if you are concerned about the impact of your bamboo clothes.

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Thanks! That’s something I will have to read up on for sure.

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I’ve heard bamboo can be good. How is your experience with them in extreme temperatures?

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I haven’t tried in very warm climates yet, but I think they should do well. Seem to breathe well - yesterday I had a full day of traveling in heavy hiking boots from the snowy Alps through hours on a bus then plane and finally relatively warmer climates, and the socks performed great the entire way. No need to change them when I finally got home, which is certainly not to my feet’s credit.

I think they will perform well in pretty much any setting where you would traditionally use cotton socks. When I went on hikes in the Alps I wore woolen socks, so I don’t know how the bamboo ones would have held up.

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Oh I can help! Got me some bamboo boxer briefs, they’re at least comparable to “normal” ones if not better in ~100°f or so heat, but of course it’s still fucking hot.

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Might not be the most environmentally friendly, but I can say from personal experience that these silver impregnated hiking shorts are both smell free and last about a decade.

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Sorry is there a link here I’m not seeing on my app… Which brand shorts are they?

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I didn’t post a link. There are many brands that produce these kind of shorts. I have no idea what brand it was, but they hold up fine. Something Italian I think 🤷‍♂️

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Ah okay thanks I’ll do some searching

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