I just lost two close relatives who were also friends today. We grew up as kids and they were about a year or two older than me. I’ve always been aware of death and accept it but when stuff like this happens, it’s a really strong reminder of how we’re all moving along in the line towards the end.

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Every day, every second. You’re always moving closer to the exit. It’s a scary thought, so most prefer not to think about it.

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Our death is us joining oblivion. That’s scary to think about until you realize you were in oblivion before you were born. I have no negative view of my non-existence prior to my birth. Death will be just like that so why should I have a problem with it.

Knowing we die someday gives life meaning.

Further, the alternative to death is living forever. Now THAT sounds like hell.

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I find it freeing. It places limits on the responsibilities of a mortal.

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It inspires one to investigate religion, psychedelics and meditation. They say it sheds light on the subject.

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Over the last 13 years or so my entire family have died of everything from cancer to suicide. I’m the youngest, and I’m at the front of the line. Life is short, don’t waste time.

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My sister was with my mom when she passed. Mom was 76 years of age and my sister told us all that mom’s last words were just a realization and surprise at realizing just how quickly life goes by. It’s made me think about my life ever since … death is no closer or further to us than this very moment. Everything happens in a moment and it is over.

You are right … live life now, there is no time to waste.

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…nothing wrong with dying; when you die it’s not your problem anymore…

…problems are for the folks left behind…

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Same with being stupid. You are not aware of it but its everyones elses problem.

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I used to be scared of death until I got tired of life. I wouldn’t want to kill myself, but when I do die, I’ll be glad the suffering is over.

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Not to sound edgy, but other than suffering in the process of dying, I’m pretty cool with my upcoming death

I really appreciate this new-to-me quote ascribed to Frida Kahlo: I hope the exit is joyful and I hope never to return

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You say that now but hopefully you will finally find happiness in life. The problem is shortly after you decide you want to live you will start dying.

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Another terrible death related thing: after a while, sometimes after bad news you’ll think “I’m glad [person] didn’t have to live to see this.”

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This thought comes to me alot: my mum passed relatively early and my grandfather shortly after that.

I’d not want either to have had to experience what this world has become

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