People used to āsocializeā in person. We had nightclubs, bars, parties, dances. Young people gathered and metāin person. That doesnāt seem to happen anymore. Why?? The allure of nightclubs was live bandsā¦ too expensive now. Bars?ā¦ too expensive now outside of special occasions. Dances? Not sure what happened thereā¦ too expensive to rent a hall and hire music? And parties? Not sure about that either.
This thread is an example of why men arenāt dating.
āIāve had painful lived experiences and faced unbalanced and unfair expectations, so Iāve decided dating isnāt worth my time right nowā
āYouāre an incelā
It doesnāt really matter what you say, itās the fact that you said it as a man that will garner disrespect from some regardless.
Too busy playing WoW. Aināt nobody got time for thatā¦
Disclaimer: Iām not 18-25.
I have a ton of women friends (more than men ATM) and have solid evidence that I am a significantly attractive man. Iām also bi so my options are a tad more broad than average.
Even with this I can say that dating is unpleasant and I have never asked for one and barely do them (women are rarely bold enough to be the initiator). It feels like a socially awkward job interview where I have to spend money I donāt have and I fucking hate job interviews.
Admittedly, I also am autistic, socially anxious, and sexually repressed (American sex culture sucks).
These types of posts always get so spicy, and not in a fun way.