Then you try to charade what they look like, then your coworker starts going down a list of other coworkers names and you’re like “Honey, I don’t know anyone’s name, not even yours. Except of Charley from accounting, he as the same name as my nephew, he also kinda looks like him, but as a grown ass man. Then you wonder what would happen if they met, would they become friends? They don’t have much else in commun though… anyways, I don’t know who I spoke to, sorry.
Edit: I didn’t proof read my post until it was posted.
Oh hell yeah. And it’s even worse when the coworker then finally figures out who you meant and goes “oh you meant [blank] why didn’t you say so?” and you’re so relieved that the uncomfortable situation has solved itself already that your brain checks it off as “completed” and moves on to the next task while still not getting the name that was just told to you five seconds ago… but then it is too embarrassing to ask again so you just roll with it and hope it doesn’t happen again (which it of course will).
My bluff when that happens
“I spoke to… … … urgh mental blank! Tall, glasses, brown hair, drives a Volvo.”
“Mandy.”
“Ah! I kept thinking Megan but I knew that was wrong. Thank you”
I work at an office suite, and a lot of people say hi to me with my name. I know none of their names. I’m also really terrible at recognizing faces (prosopagnosia). People probably think I’m extremely cold and aloof, but really I’m doing my best.
I worked at a theater for almost 2 years. Never learned the names of all the managers which was kinda amazing considering I was (unofficially) accountable to all of them (I was a projectionist, I was only technically accountable to my manager, but I had to fulfill any projection or technical needs the other managers had). I only knew the names of my manager, one of the women at the box office (she was really nice and the only one who regularly said hi when she saw me come in, and bye when she saw me leave), and then about 2 or 3 other managers.
Names are hard, except when they aren’t. I only remember names if it’s something my brain decides is important. Not if I think it’s important, if my brain thinks it’s important. My brain usually doesn’t think it’s important.
I’m terrible at remembering names! I can 100% tell you what they look like, hell, I can even tell you what they bought at the store I work at…but as far as their names? Nope. It’s awkward when someone I went to high school with two decades ago comes up and says… “Heyyyyy! (My name, of course they remember MY NAME) How’s the kids”…. 👀 I’m like… “heyyyy …. you! How’s it going???” 😬meanwhile I’m mentality trying to figure out why they kinda look familiar and how the heck they know I have kids… plural… lol. 😳
