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What does shaking your ass at a private party have to do with your academics? This is the dumbest situation. This poor girl.

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https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2023/oct/07/louisiana-student-punished-by-school-for-dancing-at-private-party

was seen dancing at a private homecoming afterparty on 30 September, behind a friend who was twerking.

she wasn’t even the one twerking

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65 points

For fucks sake. I hope her family calls the ACLU.

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62 points

Seems like the easiest way to get into a really good school would be to sue, whip up a media frenzy, and frame it through a feminist lens. Write an essay about overcoming adversity by standing up for what is right, no matter the cost.

BOOM easy admissions.

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I’d get the dance team members in on it for vaguely impugning their reputations, because when asked why nothing happened to them, the answer more or less had the implied subtext “that’s fine for them because we expect them to act like hoes, but you’re our hood ornament and should behave better.”

edit: in case anyone is unclear on my position regarding twerking

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It sounds like a religious private school, so good luck.

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29 points

It’s crazy. She lost benefits over something somebody else did. I can’t make sense of it. The dogma and brining faith and religious righteousness into everything is out on hand and needs to stop

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16 points

This is infuriating.

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It has everything to do with it because god said so:

“They basically told me that I should be ashamed of myself,” Timonet told a local news outlet. “That I wasn’t basically following God’s ideals, which made me cry even more.” “I felt like my life was over.”

Guys, it’s the same rules as any underaged closet atheist. Study your ass off, become financially independent, then twerk in front of your god fearing scholarship committee

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77 points

Religion is cancer

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Christianity is cancer. My religion supports your right to twerk.

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33 points

Sounds like someone dodged a bullet! Bullet-dodge ass-dance!

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14 points

Oh that really pisses me off. The poor girl!

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@Coasting0942 @sara ooooooh. This is a religious scholarship? or a religious school? Alrighty then at least that makes sense.

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26 points

It appears to be a public high school.

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20 points

You ain’t from around FoxNews Parish, is ya?

sput

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He (the principal) said she was punished because she is the ‘hood ornament’ of the school."

Oh for fuck sake! This is crazy old fashioned bullshit right here.

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JFC, that’s not just bullshit, it’s outright objectification and misogyny.

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Don’t worry he quoted the Bible

the principal had referred to Bible scripture on several occasions and informed her he was ‘well within his right’ to enact the discipline he chose

Ah yes, I forgot that Jesus came down to earth and said “don’t enjoy yourself women, your only purpose is just to have children under our neofascist theocratic regime”

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14 points

Then an old fuck like that will wonder why one day someone decided to throw a molotov at their window

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8 points

And Jesus said: Thou shall not SHAKE YOUR RUMP-AH

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9 points

And a double entendre.

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89 points

“Shes not a woman, she is a literal piece of flare, FOR MY Institution REEEEE”

Excuse me, Real Life? pump the brakes.

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77 points

He’s literally objectifying her in his comment

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43 points

Such a bad and disgusting comment that should have no place today. It goes back to making this poor girl sound like property.

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Devil’s advocate: it could just be poor choice of metaphors to say that she’s a representative of the school, which can reasonably choose to be associated — or not — with a certain image and perception of professionalism.

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No. he would have used a more appropriate metaphor, His choice of words underlines his thoughts at large.

i would never refer to anyone as a fucking hood ornament. that’s dehumanizing.

His brazen attitude to speak about his thoughts and not consider them to be objectifying is scary.

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38 points

He could’ve just said “representative of the school” instead though, could he?

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29 points

I’m getting pretty sick of people saying shitty things because they’re bad at metaphors. People who are bad at metaphors should just not use metaphors.

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5 points

He didn’t use an inept metaphor. It was exactly the metaphor he meant: that women are objects, property to be exploited by his administration.

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26 points

This person is the authority who is taking her potential scholarships because of dancing. Your take actually makes it worse. She is just a thing to him and not a young girl doing a popular dance that women do. It’s probably even worse in his mind because it’s a dance popularized by black people from the city.

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This would only make sense if it was explicitly explained and forbidden to her beforehand.

And since there’s no way any school who cares about their reputation would do that, no, that’s not reasonable. You can’t hold me to a standard I didn’t agree with.

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My. God. The pearl clutching and oppression of the female body these days. We may as well go back to corsets and chastity belts.

I’m not going to encourage a HSer to twerk, but c’mon! You’re going to punish her for having fun at an unrelated and offsite event? Get real.

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She wasn’t even the one twerking… she just happened to be near someone twerking… how dare she?

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55 points

Just when you thought this story couldn’t get and fucking dumber.

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Im weak on Louisiana geography and map knowledge,

How far was this from the place where tbe tourism is/was based on women baring their breasts?

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She’s not allowed to dance offsite at a private party but if you go to the school’s YouTube channel there are a couple cringy music videos of all the staff dancing (including the principal) on school property during working hours. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3qjnPeUOMjo

And why was he even watching these videos in the first place. They would have just been fun videos the friends made to share with each other outside of school. This was just about him being turned on by watching an under age girl dancing and then punishing the girl for his feelings.

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I, too, am glad we went to school before cellphones and social media.

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3 points

Story time!

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in Kate Manne’s “Down Girl,” about misogyny she wrote: “They put women in their place when they seem to have ‘ideas beyond their station.’”

“Misogynist hostility encompasses myriad ‘down girl’ moves . . . to generalize: adults are insultingly likened to children, people to animals or even to objects. As well as infantilizing and belittling, there’s ridiculing, humiliating, mocking, slurring, vilifying, demonizing sexualizing or, alternatively desexualizing… and other forms that are dismissive and disparaging in specific social contexts.”

Emphasis mine to point out the most relevant portions in this case. It’s a solid read on misogyny that I definitely recommend to anyone.

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135 points

Next they’re gonna find out she kissed a boy and expel her.

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Or they’ll find out she kissed a girl and send her to “conversion therapy.”

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What are you talking about? She has already graduated, so how is the school going to expel her? I believe that ship has already sailed

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1 point

You’re right. Why you have to ruin my joke? Why couldn’t you just let me be happy?

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That was a joke? I thought you were taking a jab at that school

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124 points

So what you can’t shake your ass if you are smart? Thats bullshit. You should be able to strip AND get your masters degree. You should be able to take bikini pics and post your published research papers. What does it matter? Our species is marked by their brown noses.

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You should be able to have an only fans and also arrest people!

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But for real, you should. I know what you’re referencing, and I see no reason why you can’t have a side job in an unrelated field as a cop.

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I’ll say the same thing I said in that thread- I have more respect for her as an OnlyFans star than I do for her as a cop and if shooting innocent black people doesn’t disqualify you from being a cop, then being on OnlyFans sure shouldn’t.

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Funny thing is a lot of sex workers near uni towns will actually be grad students working to pay tuition costs, and not like “doctorate in underwater basket weaving” like the right likes to try and demonize all degree paths but work degrees as, I’ve seen MBAs and Law School students doing this too.

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And shit its not a bad idea. If you can pull a lot of money each night you might graduate debt free. Which, in modern times, frees you of the noose of school loan repayments. I would much rather strip than have to pay these back right now on my inflexible career salary. Now, the abuse that comes with it is not okay. But that goes along with the demonizing of these profesions.

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I mean there are safe routes, Tryst looks to be run by a cooperative of tech and sex workers, or at least started as something like that with the intention of making sex work as safe as possible.

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