The classic example is libraries, but ideally I’m thinking of places you can have a conversation.

Interested in types of places (“libraries”) or specific places. Growing up we would wander around the local grocery store which was open 24 hours.

41 points

Third spaces. Capitalism doesn’t like these as they don’t generate a profit. So there aren’t many left.

Libraries, parks, anything publicly owned and accessible.

There are some privately owned third spaces, like the inside of malls. But that’s about it I think.

permalink
report
reply
-9 points

Capitalism didn’t kill third spaces, technology did. Niel Postman and Robert Putnam spent most of their lives writing about the creep of technology and how it destroys actual human society and its base-level interactions.

permalink
report
parent
reply
5 points

Why not both?

permalink
report
parent
reply
-11 points

Because “capitalism ruined it” is a tired and lazy excuse. I’m more interested in actual causes.

permalink
report
parent
reply
24 points

Car-dependent zoning did.

permalink
report
parent
reply
45 points
*
Deleted by creator
permalink
report
reply
10 points

Yeah living in north America be like: gotta pay the microtransactions to have any normal human experience

permalink
report
parent
reply
-1 points

Can you give some examples how my politicians have done this?

permalink
report
parent
reply
2 points
*
Deleted by creator
permalink
report
parent
reply
-3 points

I’m not from Detroit or Missouri or the US at all

permalink
report
parent
reply
7 points

In my experience it’s not like they get mad at you for making any sound, but they wouldn’t be happy if you were having a lively chat with friends

permalink
report
parent
reply
24 points

Some libraries have this in the US, but not all. Also a lot of funding to libraries has been cut over time. Due to this a lot of libraries that once had these features no longer do.

permalink
report
parent
reply
0 points

Hospitals!

permalink
report
reply
19 points

Malls are always a good choice. Food options, lots of seats. Can people watch.

permalink
report
reply
6 points

Malls are dying. There are way fewer now than there were a decade ago.

permalink
report
parent
reply
3 points

They still exist in most towns and cities, and if not a mall, a strip mall usually has some inside portion. Smaller with less options, but still fits the bill.

permalink
report
parent
reply
1 point

most? citation needed. I’m 35 minutes from the nearest mall and I’m not even that rural. maybe you live on the east coast where things are more dense.

permalink
report
parent
reply
9 points

hotel lobby. hospital waiting room. train station. airport. church.

permalink
report
reply
11 points

If you sit in a hotel lobby long enough, most properties will eventually kick you out. You can usually get away with it during the day, but you’ll start to stick out more the later in the day it gets. At night, the night auditor probably won’t even let you in the front door.

Pretend like you belong there if you do need to hang out in a lobby for a while, and don’t make a mess.

Source: am former FDA/night auditor.

permalink
report
parent
reply

Ask Lemmy

!asklemmy@lemmy.world

Create post

A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions

Please don’t post about US Politics. If you need to do this, try !politicaldiscussion@lemmy.world


Rules: (interactive)


1) Be nice and; have fun

Doxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, and toxicity are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them


2) All posts must end with a '?'

This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?


3) No spam

Please do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.


4) NSFW is okay, within reason

Just remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either !asklemmyafterdark@lemmy.world or !asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com. NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].


5) This is not a support community.

It is not a place for ‘how do I?’, type questions. If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email info@lemmy.world. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.


Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.

Partnered Communities:

Tech Support

No Stupid Questions

You Should Know

Reddit

Jokes

Ask Ouija


Logo design credit goes to: tubbadu


Community stats

  • 11K

    Monthly active users

  • 4.3K

    Posts

  • 228K

    Comments