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Most games unless it is a sex game shouldn’t have sex in it. My kids play lot of the same games I do and I don’t want them having access to sex in a game.

Most times it adds nothing to a story and is there just a preversion thing.

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51 points

You allow them to murder hundreds of virtual people or creatures, but sex is a bridge too far?

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13 points

Bet they are from the US?

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26 points

“How dare they show a titty in my murder simulator.”

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-16 points

Unironically yes. Pornography appeals to our monkey brain in a way that violence doesn’t. Violence in media is just an expression of conflict.

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Having sex is probably something you will do in your life, mass murder is not.

And just as hitting several hookers in downtown los Santos with a virtual bolide won’t make you a deranged carkiller, being exposed to a booby won’t make you a sex-driven pervert.

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5 points

Um, have you seen how vicious chimpanzees are when they fight? Violence 100% is monkey brain.

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40 points

Your kids shouldn’t impact what artists choose to create, and parental controls and ratings systems exist for you to engage with (you probably should if you are scared of them seeing intimacy between grown adults)

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Kids that aren’t ready to see sex in games aren’t grown up enough to play those games to begin with. I don’t know any non-porn game with a nude sex scene in it that isn’t a violent murder simulator. Except maybe Sims but that isn’t even graphic and even kids just find that funny to see.

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15 points

Sex is required for every human to exist. I’m sorry it scares you but you’re kids are going to be fucking fine.

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3 points

Akchually in-vitro fecundation is a thing.

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3 points

This just means that penetrative sex with a penis is not required. Doctors can either inseminate people directly, or implant fertilized embryos.

But the only effective way to harvest sperm is through ejaculation. I.e. masturbation. So you’re really not avoiding sex altogether. You’re just going about it differently.

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-11 points

Do you recognize that some people may have different values than your own and it’s ok for them to strive towards upholding them? You are not losing anything in life by not having pornographic scenes in video games.

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7 points

Hi, it’s good to understand the difference between pornography and narratives showing intimacy. Good day.

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6 points

Lol. You’re trying to censor an entire industry because the most natural human experience makes your nervous.

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Gamers say they want parents to actually get involved and monitor the content kids interact with in games. A parent actually does monitor what their kids play, and suddenly gamers lose their minds.

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9 points

In this case, OP is stating that he thinks no company should be making games with any type of sexual content. Just in case his kids want to play that game.

That goes beyond “monitoring what their kids play” and that’s why people are reacting strongly.

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30 points

It’s sad that people think like this

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Why is it sad? Some people want sex to be a private thing that individuals do outside of the public eye. Not everyone is a coomer who wants to revolve their life around sexuality. Just because people have different values than you doesn’t make it sad.

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Not everyone is a coomer who wants to revolve their life around sexuality.

You can acknowledge that sex exists without someone’s life revolving around it. Just like “wanting sex to be private” may not mean that someone is just terrified of the topic itself or thinks all sex is gross and should be avoided.

Just because people have different values than you doesn’t make it sad.

Some values become more of a target for criticism than others. “No one should make content that I don’t personally approve of” is one that I would categorize as worthy of criticism.

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22 points

It’s sad that the commenter allows his children to go cyberpsycho on virtual bystanders but won’t allow them to see a nipple.

There is a reason the game has an age restriction.

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10 points

It is quite obvious this was posted by an American. They are such prudes when it comes to sex and nudity, but think violence is just swell.

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4 points

Don’t get into this if you don’t want to get dogpiled by prudes. Lemmy is weirdly anti sex scenes.

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24 points

I honestly don’t care if they do or don’t add this stuff, but please make it skippable. The last thing I want is some boring corporate-approved formulaic bland sex scene that I have to suffer through in the middle of an interactive game. At least movies and shows let me 30-second skip past that stuff. All of them are exactly the same sequence. It’s tedious.

As for flirtation being more important to in-game social interactions and dialog trees that could be fun. It could also set young people up for trouble. They’d be practicing the “wrong habits” that will get charges filed against them IRL.

The reason game designers are afraid of sex is because most of Western society is. Can games help turn that around? I don’t know, but probably not. The USA is super puritanical about all things sex (but blood, gore, and violence are generally OK).

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6 points

Same

I don’t want or care about sex scenes in anything. Cyberpunk 2077 definitely has this problem, and once I get to any stage where intimacy happens I just get up and let it play out so I don’t have to watch.

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2 points

Thanks for the warning. I haven’t played it yet, and it’s on my list.

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4 points

It’s well worth the play, and most (possibly all) can be avoided with the correct choices. But there’s some character work related to it that does enhance the story

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47 points

IMO One of the hardest parts about Emotions in games is the narrow edge between developing a loving relarionship and a caring One as a close friend. I loved the Characters and interactions in BG3 but Part of me wished there were also “comraderie Events” similar to stardew valley were there are Events for getting to know poeple closer without the intent to develop a sexual relarionship to the Character

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Agreed on all points.

Out of curiosity, why did you capitalize random nouns in your comment, and leave the proper noun in lower case?

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7 points

Germans capitalize their nouns. As for the lower case proper noun, probably just a mistake.

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That’s interesting, but I don’t think it’s because of a German commenter in this case, since only some some of the nouns are capitalized.

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4 points

Spot on. Its mainly for words for which have similar spellings in both languages and my autocorrect is used to german and wants to spell Things capitalized as often as it can

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19 points

German autocorrect on a Smartphone is my Nemesis. I hope the incorrect spelling is Not too distracting

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Thanks for explaining. I’m convinced that autocorrect and touch screen keyboards are behind a great deal of the bad grammar and weird sentences that we see online.

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34 points

Best way of designing intimacy in games?

Give both intimacy options names like Angel and Skye. Give the player no indication which one is male or female.

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11 points

Lol yeah I made that mistake the first playthrough.

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3 points

Oh shit, what was my safe word again? LET ME OUT!

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2 points

SAMURAI SAMURAI SAMURAI

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9 points

They fixed that, by the way. There’s a new UI that shows their faces.

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