53 points

Walking again would be nice.

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Oh bro I’m sorry

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I take my wish back and instead wish you get to walk again too

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Thanks. It’s been three years and I miss it. I’ll be pretty happy just to get back to hobbling with a cane.

…I think we both have a long ways to go until retirement. Maybe a career change is in order?

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What happened if I may ask?

And yeah you’re probably right. I’ve been wanting to try start my own company of one for a long time, but I’m just too scared to step out of my comfort zone despite life giving me great opportunities to switch and I’m once again staring at one in the face right now.

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50 points

To be happy. Depression is hell.

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I’m sorry to hear that my guy

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5 points

Honestly same.

I just want to be happy (◞‸◟)

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0 points

The first step to happiness is to have hope. Think about a lifelong dream of your’s, and then form a plan on how to achieve it.

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I’m all for hope, but clinical depression is lifelong. There’s always going to be ups and extreme downs. Stating that happiness is an end stage that people with clinical depression can reach and maintain isn’t realistic.

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I have clinical depression. Speaking from experience here.

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42 points

To retire. I’m not even 40 yet but I dread going to work every morning. I don’t even hate my work - I just don’t feel like even the relatively good salary I get is enough to compensate for the lost time.

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I think I know what you mean. I’ve hit a phase where time spent at work feels like wasted time, since it’s not time I got to spend doing something I wanted to be doing. Which is really contrary to the usual philosophy that time not spent money is wasted.

I’ve switched jobs gone back to school etc, but no matter what once something becomes a mandatory routine that time feels like a waste. I’m starting to really value and cherish the seconds I actually have control over.

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This feeling gets worse when you realize that the time we have is a limited, non-renovating and exhaustible resource. We give this away for money over and over until we run out. Depressing as fuck.

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7 points

I took 9 months off work (well kinda I did some freelance shit but I mostly got to not work). I did eventually get bored but it took 6 of those 9 months to actually get bored lol. It may have been different if I had enough money to do whatever I wanted but, I had enough to survive.

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9 points

I had a year long paid leave and that confirmed for me that my sense of meaning is in no way tied to my work.

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To me, it just showed me that I can essentially do whatever I want to make myself happy. Work, not work, hobbies, whatever is right for the moment.

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6 points

Yeah. I don’t necessarily even want to retire right now, it’s more that hanging axe feeling that I’m never going to be able to, between decreasing purchasing power and increasing age requirements for retirement benefits. Makes it hard to get motivated to work knowing I’m going to have to keep doing it until I’m in my grave.

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34 points

To be born a woman but since that’s not possible it would be that my transition works fast and well.

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8 points

All the best for your transition. :)

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3 points

Thank you :)

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7 points

Same

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4 points

How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

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8 points

24 rn, 25 in about 2 Months

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Thank you for answering :) Good luck to you!

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Socialism and stability. I want to persue my passions without needing to devote half of my waking hours to a job (which all are incredibly mentally draining for me), and without fear of not having my basic needs met, and I want everyone else to have the same opportunity. A job should be supplimental if people choose to work, which many will, as they feel it gives them purpose.

A post-scarcity society and the death of corruption would be cool too.

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Yeah it’s always strange to me that most people are working class yet most people are so allergic to the idea of socialism, thanks Russia

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P r o p a g a n d a

Also the history of centralized control over industry hasn’t worked out too well. I’m more of the Richard Wolff philosophy of democracy over the workplace, along with a very strong social safety net, including, but not limited to a UBI that is enough for people to comfortably live on.

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If everyone got UBI, no one would eventually be able to live comfortably off it.

Edit: Also, “propaganda” but “the history of centralized control over industry hasn’t worked out too well” LOL

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Huummm… thanks Russia? And not the CIA? Why would Russia be responsible for people hating socialism?

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4 points

Well whatever, the whole Soviet thing didn’t really go very well

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