I bought cast iron pan which I think is the best ever purchase I made.

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The best purchase I’ve made this year has to be the tickets for the “Barbie” movie on opening day July 21st. As I watched the movie in theater (the best way to watch a movie), I was literally moved to tears by the performance of the lead actress, whom I might add, deserves an Oscar this year.

Fellow lemmings, I, for one, will definitely be buying “Barbie” on Blu-ray to have it in my collection.

Multiple copies, in fact.

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I truly enjoy seeing you pop up all over Lemmy, especially with posts and comments like these! Rose gold effort!

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Aw shucks, thanks.

Wait, no, now my cover is blown. 😭

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11 points

Oh my god I loved you in that science meme!

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Not to brag or anything, but I’m pretty good at both science AND memes.

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My job is memes

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Two questions for you!

1.) What is the most useful thing we in the Lemmy community can do to help you get that Oscar?

2.) I have a secret Santa this year coming up in a month that I am a part of with some friends. Would you be interested in leaving a comment for a friend of mine in response to this that I can show them a month from now for the secret santa?

“Hey Rome, this is Margot Robbie wishing you a merry Christmas and happy new year?”, or something like that?

Thanks for being cool either way and good luck getting nominated this year!

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  1. Memes. I don’t know how it works either so I’m just going with it.

  2. I’m sure he would appreciate the sincere thoughts of you as his friend more than a social media comment left by a complete stranger from the Internet. Which is what this is.

Still, hi Rome!

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You’re no stranger, you’re THE Margot Robbie! Well, A Margot Robbie. And since I saw that name on my screen that means we’re best buds, right?

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You are the opposite of me, I got bored in 10 minutes and I turned it off after 30 minutes.

It’s cool that people can enjoy so different things.

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9 points

Look at the username, it’s her.

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Do you…actually think that’s the real Margot Robbie and not just someone pretending to be her for a theme account?

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91 points

A bidet. $30, attaches under your toilet seat. Life changing.

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+1 for bidet; got mine after recommendation from a friend and since then my folks and son-in-law have also upgraded

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Which model did you buy?

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53 points

Good knives. Well worth it.

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This and knife sharpening kit. I brought back two Farberware pieces of crap and use them more than my Wusthof chef’s knife now.

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9 points

Are whetstone any good?

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It is worth learning. A single two sided whetstone and some basic skill will give you sharp knives for the rest of your life.

Bonus, keep your cheap knives. They are typically a softer metal that will require maintenance more often so you can practice.

Also learn when you need to sharpen and when you need to hone. Your knife may be sharp but the edge is out of shape (folded, bent over). A few swipes of a hone and you could be back to 80-90% sharp.

At this point I use medium value knives and sharpen them once a year. I have no regrets regarding learning to sharpen with a whetstone. I also typically don’t sharpen beyond 1000 grit and it’s still enough for people to remark on how sharp the knives are.

Best of luck.

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If you know how to use it. If you do not know got to use it a kit that you just stick in the knife is going to be way better.

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3 points

Yes. Best way to sharpen a knife

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13 points

I bought a really nice Benchmade pocket knife. I like the way it opens Amazon packages

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For anyone reading this, do not “get into” pocket knives. You’ll not know what to do with all the damn knives!

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same goes for flashlights. you won’t stop even if you already own 15 D4V2s (excluding those you already gifted to friends and family ofc)

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Thanks for the warning. The last thing I need is another weird hobby

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Give them away to friends and family who aren’t into knives. There are a lot of garbage knives out there, so it helps to have a friend who knows what I should be using and how I should take care of it.

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6 points

I wish I had more upvotes. Good knives make cooking easy and, more important, prevent injuries.

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3 points

Couldn’t agree more sharp knives don’t slip. Yet some people out there are purposely blunting kitchen knives.

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4 points

People with glass cutting boards 🧐🤨

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I’ve heard that, but I’ve only ever cut myself with the really sharp knives and yeah it’s clean, but when the knife is dull it just kind of pokes my finger and that’s it

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I bought some knife set that cost like 1000 dollars. It was an impulsive buy when I won an award at work.

Damn I learned expensive knives are worth every penny. I’ve had them twenty years. Normally I’d buy a knife and have to throw it away after a couple of years because they couldn’t be sharpened as they were cheap.

I cook every day and it makes it so much easier.

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You can sharpen every knife. Better knifes stay sharper for longer, but they still need to be sharpened regularly. This also applies to ceramic knifes, which stay sharper even longer, but also need to be sharpened after a lot of use.

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52 points

My house. Even though we have to pay taxes and mortgage interest, it beats paying rent to a landlord. Also, we bought it in 2020 and it has appreciated it value significantly since then. However, that appreciation is kind of fictitious to me, because if we sold the house it’s unlikely that we’d be able to buy a similar one in the same area for less. So, it’s just a nice house.

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Yeah housing gains do nothing for you if you want to stay in the same area.

Theoretically you’ll have more equity so you can take out loans, but with high interest rates you’ll likely avoid that… and your property taxes will eventually go up since your home value has gone up.

Hate the fact that my house has gained so much.

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At least property tax increases usually aren’t as bad as rent increases, at least in my experience.

My apparently controversial take is that flat property taxes should be abolished and the imputed rent of a given property should be progressively taxed as income instead.

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Whatever down payment you put into your house (+ whatever equity you build) appreciates at the rate of housing gains in your area. You protect that capital from devaluation due to inflation. Housing gains can do a hell of a lot for you if you want to trade up in your own neighborhood.

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And insurance goes up now that it would be more expensive to replace.

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49 points

Vasectomy. Before I got my vasectomy, I had a lot of anxiety that the condom might fail and an unwanted pregnancy would occur. That’s not to say vasectomies can’t fail, they can, even years afterwards, recanalization can happen so I get tested every year.

Annual failure rate of condom (average use) is 18%, and with perfect use it’s 2%. This means that over a span of 20 years, even with perfect use, there is a 33% chance for a pregnancy which is too high for me. A vasectomy with annual testing of sperm count is as close to zero as possible.

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Yeah, this isn’t the usual holiday present thing… this is something you buy for yourself.

I agree with OP though on the cast iron though, these are super affordable and last forever. restoring a rusty cast iron skillet is pretty easy, so there is no reason to buy them new; from a bang for the buck perspective, this is really good.

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15 points

This guy fucks

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Yup this is why I got my tubes tied. Too much anxiety just relying on the pill!

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Pretty smart. Hope it wasn’t too difficult for you to get it (many doctors treat their patients with condescension and dismissal about sterilisation, especially towards women).

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Oh man it was a nightmare finding someone who would sterilize me. I was 24 when I started seriously looking, and I can’t tell you how many doctors told me I’d change my mind about not wanting kids (insert huuuge eyeroll here), and one doctor even said that he thought my boyfriend was forcing me into it and that I didn’t understand how permanent it was. Thankfully I did finally find someone to take me seriously but man, what a pain in the ass!

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4 points

Is the annual test really necessary?

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If you want to be 100% Sure then yes.

Most people are fine with being 98% sure though.

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Okay, thanks.

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Most people don’t do it, but it’s mostly for my peace of mind.

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Got my procedure scheduled in two weeks, so I am hoping it’s a one and done thing

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Yes, if you fuck once annually

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Yeah, I’m 5 years in and stopped getting tested.

It was a fantastic purchase though!!!

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What sort of frequency are we talking about? 500 times a year? or more like 200 times a year?

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I don’t actually know.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3638209/

I didn’t go too deeply into it, just assumed this was average frequency, but I didn’t check what it is.

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This means that over a span of 20 years, even with perfect use, there is a 33% chance for a pregnancy

No this is completely inaccurate and wrong…there’s a 33% risk of a condom failing. You’d still have to time it with ovulation of the person you’re boinking for there to be a risk of pregnancy. And even then, having sex in the most optimal period isn’t even a guarantee of pregnancy, far from it.

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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3638209/

This is talking about the percentage of women with unintended pregnancies. They also compare it with no contraception which is 85% annually.

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aye aye

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