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I tend say “I mean…” before saying things. No one has ever pointed it out. but I’m very aware of it and catch myself doing it all the time. Sometimes 2-3 times in a discussion.

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I mean… 🤣

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You nice. I mean.

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i nice, u nice, we make nicer

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Dang, I do that too

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If it was harmless, why would I care to break it?

If you strive to break a habit, it likely is because it has done harm, no?

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https://lemmy.ca/comment/5299611

Doesnt harm/kill OP, but OP wants to quit anyway.

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They have identified that the habit is harmful. Not all harm is associated with pain or injury. You can cause a person practical/emotional/financial harm, and those are still forms of harm.

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It says seemingly harmless

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… ok? But if it seemed to be harmless then why would you try to break it?

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Because it may actually not be? And maybe you already know that it isnt harmless but it could still seem to be.

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Biting my nails and the skin around my nails. Currently trying to quit again. On day 6.

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You’re doing great. What helped me quit when I was a teenager was to always know where my nail clippers were, and have fast access to them. So whenever I had an urge due to an uneven nail edge, I’d just smooth it out with clippers or a nail file. Really made it simple to quit.

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That’s how I’ve done it in the past. I keep nail clippers in my pocket all day. Thanks for the tip though.

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Awesome! Stay strong, friend!

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I used to do it, what helped me break it was keeping a rubber band on my wrist and every time id bite, id snap my self with the rubber band, took ~1.5 weeks for me to stop

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But what if I’m a masochist?

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In all seriousness, it’s not a bad idea. I think I will try it.

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New way to get off in public? Double trouble if you’re into voyeurism as well!

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Keep it up !! Id really like to be able to quit too

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It’s tough for sure. I quit once for a year and a half, but some stressful times got me back into biting. You can quit too!

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What helped me quit was a manicure. Spending $40+ on my nails helped me not want to bite them. By the time the gel chipped off, I broke the habit, so I didn’t go back. I still pick off hangnails and the uneven structure, but having a file next to my desk at all times helps with that. I also have a cheat nail where I mess it up if I need to.

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Eating sweets.
Doesnt kill me (yet).

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I can’t stop buying Chia pets. They can’t stop making new designs. Send help.

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