The recent chat bot advances have pretty much changed my life. I used to get anxiety by receiving mails and IMs, sometimes even from friends. I lost friendships over not replying. My main issue being that I am sometimes get completely stuck in a loop of how to formulate things in the best way to the point of just abandoning the contact. I went to therapy for that and it helped. But the LLM advancements of the recent years have been a game changer.

Now I plop everything into ChatGPT, cleaning out personal information as much as possible, and let the machine write. Often I’ll make some adjustments but just having a starting point has changed my life.

So, my answer, I use it all the fucking time.

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Did you use ai to write this post?

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No actually! It’s not a problem for me to write text per se. Actually it’s a significant part of my job to write guidelines, documentation, etc.

What’s difficult about replying to people is putting my opinions in relation to the other’s expectations.

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Did you use AI to write THAT response?

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Everyone is an AI except you.

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I tell people I have “phone anxiety”… but it sucks. Family, friends, new acquaintances… it doesn’t matter, trying to reply or answer a phone can feel like torture sometimes. Have absolutely lost a few friends over this. You’re not alone

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The one time I drafted an email using ai, I was told off as being " incredibly inappropriate " so heck no. I have no idea what was inappropriate either, it looked fine to me. Spooky that I can’t notice the issues, so I don’t touch it

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If you’re using it right then there’d be no way for the recipient to even tell whether you’d used it, though. Did you forget to edit a line that began with “As a large language model”?

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“I’m not a cat!”

  • says a cat through the Webcam.
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Once you know someone is using it, it’s very easy to know when you’re reading AI generated text. It lacks tone and any sense of identity.

While I don’t mind it in theory, I am left with the feeling of “well if you can’t be bothered with this conversation…”

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I mean, with the vast majority of inter-departmental emails, no, one can’t be bothered, because it’s pointless busywork communication.

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With a little care in prompting you can get an AI to generate text with a very different tone than whatever its “default” is.

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Please share this email lol, I wanna see it

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ChatGPT, write an email to my boss explaining how much I want to plow his wife

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Very similar experience for me, I used to procrastinate a lot. I still do, but now it’s less about not knowing how to approach the message.

I’d say I use it about 30% of the time, usually when the message or email is important or I want to make sure it won’t be misinterpreted

Initially I used it a lot more, but after a while I got more confident that I could just do it myself. Often it would just say the same thing I said, but reworded in a more complicated way

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Your last paragraph is interesting! I can feel similar effects actually. I feel more and more confident in the way I would reply. Most of the times I know what and how to write, seeing that validated helps.

And ChatGPT has definitely a tendency for complicated wording.

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Add the instruction “use simple terms” to your prompts, should improve your results in that scenario.

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Never, I have no issue with formulating a lot, I just tend to not immediately reply and then forget.

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Yea, same here mate.

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Hey there! While I don’t use ChatGPT to generate full responses for me, I do find it super handy for refining my ideas and finding the right words. Sometimes I get stuck in the same loop of formulating things, and having ChatGPT as a creative companion helps me break through those mental roadblocks. I also use it to summarize and analyze others’ comments, making the process of crafting responses a lot smoother. It’s like having a linguistic sidekick! How about you? Do you have any specific ways you leverage the power of language models?

(This response was written for me by ChatGPT after I explained to it how I make use of it. I don’t think it got it quite right, but it wouldn’t be as funny if I edited it any, so there it is.)

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I recognized this as ChatGPT, purely because of the enthusiastic greeting

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I recognised it too but it wasn’t the greeting. Not sure what it was. Maybe the way it tends to droningly string points together. It’s also more verbose than humans.

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For me it was the leading questions at the end, LLMs often end with leading questions so that you have a way to continue the conversation from what I’ve found.

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And they also often start their text with copying your question

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