I’m currently struggling with upgrading some Postgres DBs on my home-k3s and I’m seriously considering throwing it all away since it’s such a hassle.
So, how do you handle DBs? K8s? Just a regular daemon?
I have a single database server because I can’t afford two servers with high storage. The servers that need access to it connect over wireguard VPN. This is slow as f**k don’t do that.
I avoid software which requires a relational database altogether. For me that’s part of the fun of self hosting: what’s the simplest possible system I can get away with at my tiny scale?
Cautiously.